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Eliot Page; a positive example of masculinity?

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juoist · 21/07/2025 16:04

I shared this news story in a group whatsapp and my year 8 daughter just told me that the same thing happened in her assembly recently.

I mean, this is batshit insanity and totally goes against what the Cass review states.

It’s out and out grooming. Clearly Page is an example of something other than positivity, whenever I see them being interviewed , they seem deeply depressed and miserable.

Are any of the boys in her school going to see Page as a man? Are any of the girls going to see it and wonder if their clothes choices and hairstyle mean they’re also a man? Why are schools still pumping out this unhealthy rhetoric for young teens? It’s insane.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14924669/Primary-school-trans-actor-Elliot-Page-lesson-masculinity.html

School uses trans actor Elliot Page as positive example of masculinity

The actor, who now identifies as a man after medically transitioning with cross-sex hormones and surgery, featured in a lesson about how masculinity can take multiple forms.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14924669/Primary-school-trans-actor-Elliot-Page-lesson-masculinity.html

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puffyisgood · 05/07/2026 11:26

I suppose EP is pretty much the textbook 'trans man' in the sense of being an initially closeted gay woman who suffered horrendous abuse (from men, obviously) very early on life.

I feel a huge amount of both empathy and sympathy, but, yes, EP doesn't have anything like the physicality to play like Achilles. Heck, nearly all natal men don't. It'd be on a par with casting a 6'5", square jawed, hulking TW to play Helen of Troy, it'd immediately break all viewer immersion

TheCatsTongue · 05/07/2026 11:40

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 05/07/2026 02:13

Using the language of CSA to describe a trans person chatting to schoolchildren, seriously?

CSA is violent, life-destroying abuse. Please don't trivialise the reality of that.

Children know trans people exist, and will encounter them in person as they get older. They need to be taught tolerance and respect for difference, and well done Page for giving his time.

Being trans is a very hard life, and no one chooses it because they heard being trans is possible.

Just another example of recycled homophobia, of the kind common during Section 28.

Being trans is not contagious, and no one is conspiring to make children trans.

Trans children attend school in very small numbers, but very few get through it due to the violence and harassment they suffer. Teaching tolerance is not 'grooming' oh my god that is so offensive to survivors.

You should speak to @Baileyonice who is now saying that detransitioners made a choice to become trans. Surely the detransitioners (who apparently weren't really trans) must have decided to transition because of social contagion?

TheCatsTongue · 05/07/2026 11:48

Detransitioners are heretics, because they clearly show the folly of trans.

Apparently someone can now transition, take hormones, have sex change surgery but now not be trans?

I suppose this is what happens when you try to create an ambiguous trans identity. Legally trans is defined as sexual reassignment, so the medical and legal processes, not a "soul".

Gender dysphoria is a thing (and is a mental condition), detransitioners had it, it made them transition, and then afterwards they lost their dysphoria and reverted back to their real sex.

If detrans isn't trans, then someone needs to explain what trans actually is.

NotBadConsidering · 05/07/2026 11:49

Baileyonice · 05/07/2026 10:04

This study found that the 4-year gender-affirming hormone continuation rate was 70.2% with 81% for the transfeminine group and 64% for the transmasculine group
36% discontinued in the “transmasculine” group. Even higher than my typo.

Discontinuing taking hormones doesn't mean you discontinue being trans. There could be any number of reasons why for not continuing with hormones that don't include detransitioning. I knew you didn't understand the paper.

False. Its over 16 in the USA & Australia.
In Australia there is no law banning it. It’s just considered not acceptable. There have been 15 year olds who have had mastectomies.

Gender affirming surgery for minors is considered as a 'special medical procedure' & as such requires court approval based on the individual circumstances. To try & pass this off as some blanket approval for GAC surgery for minors is simply disinformation.

Why do you think this no longer happens?
Oh stop lying. I never said it doesn't happen I said its not legal.

That isn’t true. At all

Is knee surgery banned given the regret rate? 🤡

Discontinuing taking hormones doesn't mean you discontinue being trans. There could be any number of reasons why for not continuing with hormones that don't include detransitioning. I knew you didn't understand the paper.

So the true rate of detransition is unknown then, isn’t it? Like I said. Not “tiny” like you said. You really don’t understand what the paper is saying.

Gender affirming surgery for minors is considered as a 'special medical procedure' & as such requires court approval based on the individual circumstances. To try & pass this off as some blanket approval for GAC surgery for minors is simply disinformation.

Wrong. Provide proof it needs court approval. Go on. In Australia only the consent of parents is required. That girl in the example did not need court approval.

You are the one saying it doesn’t happen at all. I said nothing about there being blanket approval. It’s happened, and it’s happening. You need to provide evidence for your claim.

Oh stop lying. I never said it doesn't happen I said its not legal.

Okay, demonstrate that it is illegal to get a mastectomy in Australia. Or the entire United States. Link to the law. Even the executive orders and state laws have only banned the funding or provision of it. But it’s not illegal to get one. And that’s not in all states.

Is knee surgery banned given the regret rate?

You said gender affirming surgery has “one of if not lowest regret rate.” That isn’t true. The true regret rate hasn’t been studied long term. That’s the problem. Why do you keep talking about knees? You know knees and breasts aren’t the same, right? The regret rate for knee surgery long term has been studied. The long term regret rate for mastectomies.

And regret for knee surgery is based on the symptoms it leads to. It’s not based on the fact there was never anything wrong with the knee in the first place, which is what the regret from gender mastectomies is from.

The whole point is the fact that detransitioners demonstrate that the diagnosis of “trans” in children and young people is unreliable. The comparator would be the diagnosis of osteoarthritis is unreliable. Both lead to surgeries that might lead to regret. Only one has objectively demonstrated evidence that can be visualised by other people. So they really aren’t the same.

I do wonder about the mindset of people who are so dismissive of the fact children are having their breasts removed on the basis of what can be a transient feeling, and thinking that’s ok, or comparable to demonstrable knee disease in adults. The clown emoji doesn’t do that justice. There’s something malevolent about that. Is there a Pennywise clown emoji?

NotBadConsidering · 05/07/2026 11:54

puffyisgood · 05/07/2026 11:26

I suppose EP is pretty much the textbook 'trans man' in the sense of being an initially closeted gay woman who suffered horrendous abuse (from men, obviously) very early on life.

I feel a huge amount of both empathy and sympathy, but, yes, EP doesn't have anything like the physicality to play like Achilles. Heck, nearly all natal men don't. It'd be on a par with casting a 6'5", square jawed, hulking TW to play Helen of Troy, it'd immediately break all viewer immersion

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She’s not playing Achilles, she’s playing another character apparently. There’s been the whole manufactured outrage of an amazing black woman playing Helen of Troy, I can see the logic behind that casting, but he’s too smart to sabotage his own massive project passing off a tiny woman as a Greek demigod. People would just laugh.

Helleofabore · 05/07/2026 12:09

NotBadConsidering · 05/07/2026 11:49

Discontinuing taking hormones doesn't mean you discontinue being trans. There could be any number of reasons why for not continuing with hormones that don't include detransitioning. I knew you didn't understand the paper.

So the true rate of detransition is unknown then, isn’t it? Like I said. Not “tiny” like you said. You really don’t understand what the paper is saying.

Gender affirming surgery for minors is considered as a 'special medical procedure' & as such requires court approval based on the individual circumstances. To try & pass this off as some blanket approval for GAC surgery for minors is simply disinformation.

Wrong. Provide proof it needs court approval. Go on. In Australia only the consent of parents is required. That girl in the example did not need court approval.

You are the one saying it doesn’t happen at all. I said nothing about there being blanket approval. It’s happened, and it’s happening. You need to provide evidence for your claim.

Oh stop lying. I never said it doesn't happen I said its not legal.

Okay, demonstrate that it is illegal to get a mastectomy in Australia. Or the entire United States. Link to the law. Even the executive orders and state laws have only banned the funding or provision of it. But it’s not illegal to get one. And that’s not in all states.

Is knee surgery banned given the regret rate?

You said gender affirming surgery has “one of if not lowest regret rate.” That isn’t true. The true regret rate hasn’t been studied long term. That’s the problem. Why do you keep talking about knees? You know knees and breasts aren’t the same, right? The regret rate for knee surgery long term has been studied. The long term regret rate for mastectomies.

And regret for knee surgery is based on the symptoms it leads to. It’s not based on the fact there was never anything wrong with the knee in the first place, which is what the regret from gender mastectomies is from.

The whole point is the fact that detransitioners demonstrate that the diagnosis of “trans” in children and young people is unreliable. The comparator would be the diagnosis of osteoarthritis is unreliable. Both lead to surgeries that might lead to regret. Only one has objectively demonstrated evidence that can be visualised by other people. So they really aren’t the same.

I do wonder about the mindset of people who are so dismissive of the fact children are having their breasts removed on the basis of what can be a transient feeling, and thinking that’s ok, or comparable to demonstrable knee disease in adults. The clown emoji doesn’t do that justice. There’s something malevolent about that. Is there a Pennywise clown emoji?

The trope that gets repeated in defence of extreme body modifications for gender identity gets absurd when we start seeing the regret rates for knee surgeries misused for that defence. It never worked as it was not comparative. Yet it still gets rolled out.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/07/2026 12:11

I'll believe all this gender bending and race swapping stuff in movies when Eliot Page is cast as Gandhi, Part 2.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/07/2026 12:12

Why not?

Lalgarh · 05/07/2026 12:56

NotBadConsidering · 05/07/2026 11:54

She’s not playing Achilles, she’s playing another character apparently. There’s been the whole manufactured outrage of an amazing black woman playing Helen of Troy, I can see the logic behind that casting, but he’s too smart to sabotage his own massive project passing off a tiny woman as a Greek demigod. People would just laugh.

Cultivated mystery. Ells character isn't labelled on the IMDB cast listings (yet)

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt33764258/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_1_tt_5_nm_2_in_0_q_ody

localnotail · 05/07/2026 13:49

I think she/ they are fine and I have no problems with them dressed/ acting as a man but masculinity? How do they explain this?

TheCatsTongue · 05/07/2026 13:55

Lalgarh · 05/07/2026 12:56

Cultivated mystery. Ells character isn't labelled on the IMDB cast listings (yet)

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt33764258/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_1_tt_5_nm_2_in_0_q_ody

It would seem that they are delaying in announcing what role she is in so that they can delay the inevitable backlash over it.

All the Money in the World get delayed to replace Kevin Spacer with Christopher Plummer. They don't want to be forced to either cut her out or refilm and delay the film.

puffyisgood · 05/07/2026 14:41

NotBadConsidering · 05/07/2026 11:54

She’s not playing Achilles, she’s playing another character apparently. There’s been the whole manufactured outrage of an amazing black woman playing Helen of Troy, I can see the logic behind that casting, but he’s too smart to sabotage his own massive project passing off a tiny woman as a Greek demigod. People would just laugh.

I suspect the Helen actress was chosen for rage bait reasons, but it really strikes me as far from unreasonable, if she's meant to be the daughter of Zeus then all bets must surely be off in terms of what she might look like. The 2004 film's strikingly blonde cast was arguably no less silly.

But Page playing a man, I mean...

MarieDeGournay · 05/07/2026 15:42

TheCatsTongue · 04/07/2026 13:49

I'm sure there's something deeply psychological that the model of masculinity is a "man" with no penis and testicles, and presumably the model of femininity is a castrated male. We're going back centuries to when the Castrati were widely celebrated, and there's something safe about a man with no sexual function or penis.

Again, highly suspicious of the entertainment industry that promotes individuals that are being kept in a childlike state.

You've gone back to the Castrati, I'm going back to David Cassidy - you go high when I go low - look, it could have been worse, I could have gone Donny Osmond😄

Young men who looked more like young women [acc to traditional stereotypes] and who were heartthrobs for 13 year old girls - is that the example of masculinity that EP is going for I wonder?

Eliot Page; a positive example of masculinity?
OldCrone · 05/07/2026 15:58

Baileyonice · 05/07/2026 08:54

People convince themselves they are trans?

Yes just like gay men convince themselves they are straight. Just because people are confused or in denial about who they really are doesn't delegitimise others who aren't.

People who are "confused or in denial about who they really are" describes men who think they're women and women who think they're men. Because nobody actually is the opposite sex to that of their body.

You seem to be saying that people who thought they were the opposite sex but it turns out they weren't aren't genuine trans people, they're just confused people who can't work out who they are. These are the detransitioners.

But according to you there are also genuine transpeople who are actually the opposite sex to that of their body.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/07/2026 16:21

Would they put a transman in an all male prison? I'm guessing not. They would be raped every day and all day

puffyisgood · 05/07/2026 16:28

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/07/2026 16:21

Would they put a transman in an all male prison? I'm guessing not. They would be raped every day and all day

Is that a trick question?

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/07/2026 16:33

No. I used to work in a YOI.

Theunchosenone · 05/07/2026 16:42

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/07/2026 16:21

Would they put a transman in an all male prison? I'm guessing not. They would be raped every day and all day

They put a TIF in a male psych ward. She was raped within an hour of being put there.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/07/2026 16:47

Theunchosenone · 05/07/2026 16:42

They put a TIF in a male psych ward. She was raped within an hour of being put there.

Doesn't surprise me. "His" vagina in a male prison would be the most popular orifice. That's why trans men are not housed in male prisons, not even in Scotland.

Theunchosenone · 05/07/2026 16:50

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/07/2026 16:47

Doesn't surprise me. "His" vagina in a male prison would be the most popular orifice. That's why trans men are not housed in male prisons, not even in Scotland.

I agree. You don’t see TIF campaigning to be transferred to male prisons do you? Or pushing to be included in male sports. It’s almost like the trans movement is a man’s movement.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/07/2026 16:55

Theunchosenone · 05/07/2026 16:50

I agree. You don’t see TIF campaigning to be transferred to male prisons do you? Or pushing to be included in male sports. It’s almost like the trans movement is a man’s movement.

Quite so.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/07/2026 17:00

Just to be specific, there are 5 or fewer trans men held in male prisons. The rest are in the female estate.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/07/2026 17:02

Unlike the male to female trans who are not considered a risk in the female estate

Theunchosenone · 05/07/2026 17:03

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/07/2026 17:00

Just to be specific, there are 5 or fewer trans men held in male prisons. The rest are in the female estate.

It just shows the hypocrisy of the genderwang. If it’s worse than death for a TIM to be in a male prison, why are they not campaigning for all those TIF to be put in male prisons. They should not be, but it exposes the true agenda. All prisons should be single sex.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/07/2026 17:34

Theunchosenone · 05/07/2026 17:03

It just shows the hypocrisy of the genderwang. If it’s worse than death for a TIM to be in a male prison, why are they not campaigning for all those TIF to be put in male prisons. They should not be, but it exposes the true agenda. All prisons should be single sex.

Indeed. But there is no clamour for trans men to be in any spaces or sports reserved for men. In fact, most men would say if a female strips off in their changing room or were to be in close confines with a male prisoner, bring it on. Or if they want to compete in a male sport and get the sh*t kicked out of them, bring it on. Just goes to show, this is is a male driven movement.