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Has there been an influx of TRAs to Mumsnet recently?

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ByTheRiverside · 17/06/2026 16:08

I'm a long time reader. Only recently started to participate.

I very rarely saw any TRAs on here over the years. But in the past few weeks, I've noticed a lot of them coming here.

You can generally tell by the absolute shite coming out of their mouths, such as being avid apologists for sex offenders.

What's their deal with coming here? Are they saying that their 'womanhood' is reliant on us conforming to their belief, so they're trying to get us to agree with them? If that's so, then welcome!!! You're going to have to get used to reality real quick if you stick around.

Has anyone else noticed this, or just me?

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callmeLoretta1 · 23/06/2026 16:47

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callmeLoretta1 · 23/06/2026 16:50

Diverze · 23/06/2026 13:25

There are lies, damned lies and statistics.

One could argue that since only 0.02 percent of the male imprisoned population in 2019 were trans, that trans women are very much less likely to commit any crime than men, since the estimate is that between 0.1 and 0.5 percent of men identify as trans.

Or, doing further analysis, According to ONS, the male population aged 18+ in 2019 was approx 26.2 million. So 0.003 percent of men were imprisoned in 2019.

Taking the mid point of the estimates, that 0.25 percent of males identify as trans, that would be about 65500 transwomen in the UK, of whom 129 or 0.002 percent are in prison. So slightly less likely to offend than men and be convicted. If one chooses the more conservative estimate of 0.1 percent of mean, the figure of 0.004 percent of them in prison means 1 extra trans offender per 1000 transwomen compared to 1000 men.

So whilst one might argue that a transperson committing crime is more likely to be committing sex crimes than a man committing crimes is likely to be committing sex crimes, 99.998 percent of transwomen are not in prison, and of that 0.002 percent that are, about half are there for sex crimes.

76/65500 is 0.001 percent of transwomen committing sex crimes and being convicted. That's 1 in 1000

13234/26.2 million is 0.0005 of men committing sex crimes and being convicted. That's 1 in 2000

So overall both males and transwomen are overwhelmingly not criminals. Sex crimes appear at around double the rate in transwomen, and thankfully that is still incredibly rare and 999 in 1000 transwomen are not being convicted of sex crimes.

There is a proven trajectory over UK, US, Canada and New Zealand. Per capita, transwomen sexually offend higher than other males. This is a proven fact over at least 4 countries. These are prison statistics. And I remind you that programmes regarding Domestic Violence, drugs and other issues are based on these same prison statistics. So cut the crap.

callmeLoretta1 · 23/06/2026 16:53

Diverze · 23/06/2026 14:20

Wherever did you get that idea from?

Pointing out that the VAST majority of trans people are law abiding and not sex offenders, whilst continuing to acknowledge that women are entitled to maintain single sex spaces, and that imo trans people need to acknowledge that they are valid but different, doesn't anywhere suggest that I want to do away with "any safeguarding" for women.

It's just on here with those same faces (such as Bryson) being shown over and over a casual reader could be surprised to discover that only 1 in 1000 transwomen is likely to be a sex offender. For example, early in the thread someone suggested that transwomen just want to rifle through the sanitary bins and masturbate. Stats show that almost all don't in fact want to do that. Which doesn't mean that transwomen should access those spaces, regardless.

This is not about 'trans pEopLe'. This is about MALE vs FEMALE. The fact that trans men - females, don't have the same sexual offending rates proves this.

callmeLoretta1 · 23/06/2026 17:04

Diverze · 23/06/2026 15:37

It's a bit more complex than that, isn't it?

A man almost certainly wouldn't believe he was in the right place in the ladies' loo. If a man is there with a particular purpose (helping his very young daughter use the loo, helping his wife who is miscarrying) then they would have an ordinary risk of being an offender at population level. A man in the ladies loo with no reason is probably statistically more likely to be a worry as they would know they have no valid reason (having a wee) to be there.

A trans woman could genuinely believe (erroneously in my view) that they have a right to be there, and in their mind therefore could have a valid reason (a wee) to be there.

One might argue those transwomen are knowingly defying women's boundaries (assuming they are aware of some women's discomfort) and therefore automatically higher risk; however I don't know if the stats bear that out. Most of them really do 'just want to pee'.

What I do suspect is that a trans woman who does not use the women's loo (or other spaces) is likely mindful of their impact on others, doesn't wish to cause worry or upset, and is therefore probably less likely than the statistical average for their cohort to be a sex offender.

Oh come on. Just wanting to pee. If they genuinely 'just wanted to pee' they would go into the male space. The fact that women sometimes cut the queue and use the mens without incident proves there is no safety risk and it never, ever, ever, ever was about safety or 'just wanting to pee'. It never was about 'just wanting to pee'. You now it. I know it. The readers on this thread knows it. Let us all be honest here and cut the bs. You can defend trans people without lying about the reality. 'Just trying to pee'....

Has there been an influx of TRAs to Mumsnet recently?
callmeLoretta1 · 23/06/2026 17:07

Diverze · 23/06/2026 16:03

They don't. We agree on that.

I don't know how to say this any more clearly. Women are entitled to single sex spaces. I agree. My trans daughter agrees. The law agrees.

She is also entitled to present, dress and think of her identity however she wants, and not being denied work, care, or housing because of this. These are her 'gender reassignment' based rights. She can also request whichever pronouns she wants and whichever title she wants. She isn't going to make a scene if you use a different one. It's a preference, not a law.

Then that's good. I'm glad for that. And your child should have the same rights as everyone else does, no more, no less.

Lentilcakes · 23/06/2026 17:10

orangegato · 17/06/2026 16:43

After uni exams probably. Unis have become factories for unhinged Green Party type ideas and have just churned out the latest batch. Very sad really.

This is my DD to a tee (although graduated last year). Ticks every box.

callmeLoretta1 · 23/06/2026 23:37

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 23/06/2026 11:53

I know the stat's bullshit.

Utter, complete, transphobic bullshit.

There is no registry of trans women, for pity's sake.

There is no plague of trans women attacking cis. The same few photos of horrific individuals (whose crimes I would never excuse) are endlessly recycled* while cis men who rape women wherever they want without consequence. Even when found guilty.

Trans men exist too. And that's because for some people, their outward gender doesn't match the inner. Some dress according to gender stereotype, some do not.

It's just another "this minority is naturally sexually aggressive" but of bigotry from the exact same people who continue to deal in racism, homophobia, antisemitism and Islamophobia.

*A note on that. Exactly when are anti-trans campaigners going to start thinking about the victims of Isla Bryson and others? Do you really think they want to be retraumatised by seeing their attacker's photo & name, or the details of their attacks discussed? Weaponising their pain and trauma is unforgiveable.

Except it's it's not "bullshit" and you know it. Because the trajectory is the same over at least 4 countries, not just the UK.

It's not about "cis" men. It's about MALES. Transwomen are male. They sexually offend the same, indeed 5 times higher. The fact that transmen do not sexually offend anywhere remotely near as much as transwomen proves this is male vs female and transwomen are male and have male sexual offending patterns.

Males are 50%, they are not a minority. No matter how many times you take 1% of males, stick a label on them as trans, and think that makes them a minority. It does not. They're just....male.

Has there been an influx of TRAs to Mumsnet recently?
Has there been an influx of TRAs to Mumsnet recently?
Has there been an influx of TRAs to Mumsnet recently?
Has there been an influx of TRAs to Mumsnet recently?
Has there been an influx of TRAs to Mumsnet recently?
unwashedanddazed · 24/06/2026 00:20

unwashedanddazed · 23/06/2026 15:37

Eh?

I was being mildly sarcastic in response to a post that I interpreted as trying to play down the significance of the prison stats on trans identified male sex offenders, that ultimately concluded they offend at double the rate of the rest of the male population.
It is absurd to accuse me of being facetious about rape and sex crimes.

unwashedanddazed · 24/06/2026 00:22

Fucked up the quote - previous post was replying to RedToothBrush.

ByTheRiverside · 24/06/2026 02:54

callmeLoretta1 · 23/06/2026 23:37

Except it's it's not "bullshit" and you know it. Because the trajectory is the same over at least 4 countries, not just the UK.

It's not about "cis" men. It's about MALES. Transwomen are male. They sexually offend the same, indeed 5 times higher. The fact that transmen do not sexually offend anywhere remotely near as much as transwomen proves this is male vs female and transwomen are male and have male sexual offending patterns.

Males are 50%, they are not a minority. No matter how many times you take 1% of males, stick a label on them as trans, and think that makes them a minority. It does not. They're just....male.

Excellent information, thank you for sharing...

Goes to show when they say "What do you have to be afraid of they're more like women than men"

Actually, we should be more afraid of them than we are other men.

If we keep it to the statistics then we'd be better off putting non trans identifying men into women's prisons.

Maybe that can be the next TRA strategy? "Non-trans males are far less dangerous than trans identifying males. Please let just them in so maybe one day we'll be allowed, too."

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FourViminScots · 24/06/2026 06:36

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CassOle · 24/06/2026 11:32

It is always worth posting evidence for the lurkers. However, those who are entrenched in gender ideology will not be swayed by evidence. Human nature is a funny thing, and some people will double down when presented with evidence, rather than critically analyse their beliefs.

KG74 · 24/06/2026 11:35

This original post makes it sound like this isn't a public forum for those who want to discuss sex and gender. As a TRA, I am the public and have a right to post and read a board in which I have an interest. GCs don't own Mumsnet.

Seethlaw · 24/06/2026 11:40

KG74 · 24/06/2026 11:35

This original post makes it sound like this isn't a public forum for those who want to discuss sex and gender. As a TRA, I am the public and have a right to post and read a board in which I have an interest. GCs don't own Mumsnet.

Not at all. The OP only remarks on the apparent sudden increase in a certain type of posters. At no point does it say that those posters are not welcome. By all means, read and post!

murasaki · 24/06/2026 11:41

KG74 · 24/06/2026 11:35

This original post makes it sound like this isn't a public forum for those who want to discuss sex and gender. As a TRA, I am the public and have a right to post and read a board in which I have an interest. GCs don't own Mumsnet.

Of course. And I have the right to wonder what your motivations are in prioritising men's wants over women's safety, and judge you accordingly.

Shedmistress · 24/06/2026 11:54

KG74 · 24/06/2026 11:35

This original post makes it sound like this isn't a public forum for those who want to discuss sex and gender. As a TRA, I am the public and have a right to post and read a board in which I have an interest. GCs don't own Mumsnet.

Go on then...

GreyskySexRealistsky · 24/06/2026 12:03

KG74 · 24/06/2026 11:35

This original post makes it sound like this isn't a public forum for those who want to discuss sex and gender. As a TRA, I am the public and have a right to post and read a board in which I have an interest. GCs don't own Mumsnet.

You certainly do. Let's hear it.

Taztoy · 24/06/2026 12:04

KG74 · 24/06/2026 11:35

This original post makes it sound like this isn't a public forum for those who want to discuss sex and gender. As a TRA, I am the public and have a right to post and read a board in which I have an interest. GCs don't own Mumsnet.

I’d love to debate with you. What’s your solution to preserving women’s sex based rights!

thanks so much!

GreyskySexRealistsky · 24/06/2026 12:27

........tumbleweed.......

DialSquare · 24/06/2026 12:29

KG74 · 24/06/2026 11:35

This original post makes it sound like this isn't a public forum for those who want to discuss sex and gender. As a TRA, I am the public and have a right to post and read a board in which I have an interest. GCs don't own Mumsnet.

Keep It Moving Go Ahead GIF by Dot Cromwell

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Seethlaw · 24/06/2026 12:31

GreyskySexRealistsky · 24/06/2026 12:27

........tumbleweed.......

I think we're scaring them...

murasaki · 24/06/2026 14:48

So many of them turn up, make one holier than thou ridiculous post, and then vanish in a puff of smoke. As when presented with logic and fairness, not to mention the law, they have no coherent argument.

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 24/06/2026 14:54

I can sort of understand. It's a bit like walking into the sea anywhere in Britain on a day when it's 35C and sunny, thinking you'll just have a quick swim, and finding out that your knees are frozen before you're halfway in! Not quite the experience you thought you'd have or were even looking for!

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