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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC - July 2026

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Milennialworkinprogress · 25/06/2026 15:53

Moving from the June thread, baby dust to all!

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2littleonesx · 06/07/2026 20:06

OrangeRainbow · 06/07/2026 18:00

Hi all, 9dpo - does anyone see anything? I don’t think so but also have line eyes 🤣

Yes! Congratulations that is definitely a line! 💘💘

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 20:47

I'm a bit confused, thought i was in my 2ww but had positive ovulation test for 3 days now.

ThisNoisyLemur · 06/07/2026 21:05

Maomee · 06/07/2026 13:55

Thank you for your kind words.
I know it's still technically in the normal range that most people conceive but I can't help but feel something is wrong as we've always timed things so well almost every cycle and I do usually have heavy and painful periods which makes me think something may be wrong.

I am going to have an appointment later this month where I can discuss this more and we're still waiting for my partner's semen analysis come back so we are beginning to look into things. I'm just scared that things are going to take much longer than we'd hoped. I think another part of it is the fact we started trying when I was 33 and I'm 34 now .at this rate I'll be at least 35 when I have a baby if I ever do, and it now looks likely it may be even later. Just so worried about any underlying problems and the fact these things only get worse with time .

Sorry to vent 😭 I just don't really have anyone to talk to other than my partner and he gets upset too.

Sorry ❤️

It’s so disheartening getting your period every month! And the unknown of when things are going to happen. I hope you’re ok. Sounds like you’ve been really proactive with some appointments scheduled in. Hoping you get some good news while you’re waiting for your appointments!

Maomee · 06/07/2026 21:05

Pineapplechew · 06/07/2026 16:02

Vent away! It’s hard when you can’t talk to people irl about it and it’s all just in your head. I used to always say I don’t mind if it takes a year or more as long as I know eventually we’ll get there, the waiting isn’t the hard part it’s the not knowing!
Hopefully for you it’s just bad luck so far that will change soon, or it’s something easy to fix.
and the chance each month is pretty low really anyway, sooo much has to go right to get pregnant! It doesn’t necessarily mean anything is wrong.
fingers crossed for some helpful results for you when the analysis comes back and with your appointment, all you can do is keep trying until then.
I’d say though most of my friends had their first at 35/36 if that helps even a tiny bit, I think you still have plenty of time

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You are right there is an awful lot that has to go right to produce a pregnancy I'm just driving myself crazy trying to imagine which part(s) aren't working! Since we haven't had one positive yet, I feel convinced that the sperm and egg aren't even meeting. That may not be true, but it's my gut feeling now that it's been such a long time and it's such a desperately sad and frustrating thing.

Thanks for your words of support though, it means a lot. I hope your journey is easier. 💜

ThisNoisyLemur · 06/07/2026 21:05

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 20:47

I'm a bit confused, thought i was in my 2ww but had positive ovulation test for 3 days now.

Ooo what day of your cycle were you expecting to be? Did you have positive OPKs earlier this month too?

get down to it if the OPK is positive! Hehe

ThisNoisyLemur · 06/07/2026 21:07

OrangeRainbow · 06/07/2026 18:00

Hi all, 9dpo - does anyone see anything? I don’t think so but also have line eyes 🤣

I see it! Congrats :)

Emmie93 · 06/07/2026 21:10

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 20:47

I'm a bit confused, thought i was in my 2ww but had positive ovulation test for 3 days now.

Can I ask what DPO you are? As with some ovulation brands they become positive when you’re pregnant. I got my first BFP pregnancy test at 8dpo and did an ovulation test for funsies, as I read they can be positive when you’re pregnant and it was!

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 21:11

@ThisNoisyLemurnot sure on my cycle day as came off the pill last week. Wasn't expecting to get a positive ovulation test so quick. Just tested again and it seems to be getting slowly lighter.

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 21:13

Emmie93 · 06/07/2026 21:10

Can I ask what DPO you are? As with some ovulation brands they become positive when you’re pregnant. I got my first BFP pregnancy test at 8dpo and did an ovulation test for funsies, as I read they can be positive when you’re pregnant and it was!

Going on the ovulation tests I'd be 1 or 2 dpo, did a pregnancy test as well and thats negative

Emmie93 · 06/07/2026 21:15

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 21:13

Going on the ovulation tests I'd be 1 or 2 dpo, did a pregnancy test as well and thats negative

Oh, maybe not then lol is the test line definitely as dark or darker than the control line?

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 21:18

Emmie93 · 06/07/2026 21:15

Oh, maybe not then lol is the test line definitely as dark or darker than the control line?

It was this morning, its a little lighter now, so if I have ovulated it possible would have been yesterday or this morning

Emmie93 · 06/07/2026 21:20

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 21:18

It was this morning, its a little lighter now, so if I have ovulated it possible would have been yesterday or this morning

Ovulation happens between 12-36hrs after a positive test. Hopefully you baby danced yesterday or day before, or make sure you baby dance today lol

Pineapplechew · 06/07/2026 21:21

Did it go lighter in between? This confused me, I got a positive and then continued getting positives for days. But I think you go from the first positive. If it went lighter in between it could be that your body didn’t manage to ovulate and is trying again I suppose? Or you’re ovulating two eggs? Or if you have PCOS they can be a bit unreliable

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 21:23

Emmie93 · 06/07/2026 21:20

Ovulation happens between 12-36hrs after a positive test. Hopefully you baby danced yesterday or day before, or make sure you baby dance today lol

Managed to this morning. So we'll see in 2 weeks

Emmie93 · 06/07/2026 21:24

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 21:23

Managed to this morning. So we'll see in 2 weeks

Fingers crossed for you, you should have it covered especially if you baby danced a few days ago too ☺️

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 21:25

Pineapplechew · 06/07/2026 21:21

Did it go lighter in between? This confused me, I got a positive and then continued getting positives for days. But I think you go from the first positive. If it went lighter in between it could be that your body didn’t manage to ovulate and is trying again I suppose? Or you’re ovulating two eggs? Or if you have PCOS they can be a bit unreliable

It didnt, it stayed dark. It only started getting lighter this evening, ovulating 2 eggs would be scarey lol but not uncommon for my age apparently. As far as im aware I dont have pcos

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 21:26

Emmie93 · 06/07/2026 21:24

Fingers crossed for you, you should have it covered especially if you baby danced a few days ago too ☺️

Thank you, we did yea, a little nervous starting again. My youngest is 10. But a another baby is very much wanted.

Emmie93 · 06/07/2026 21:28

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 21:26

Thank you, we did yea, a little nervous starting again. My youngest is 10. But a another baby is very much wanted.

You’ll get there girl! How long have you been trying for if you don’t mind me asking? ☺️

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 21:31

Emmie93 · 06/07/2026 21:28

You’ll get there girl! How long have you been trying for if you don’t mind me asking? ☺️

This time round its the first month. So not expecting it to happen so quick. Tried 2 years for my eldest, 3 months for my middle child and my youngest was a surprise. They all have the same dad. This one would have a different dad so we're not sure how our fertility is

Emmie93 · 06/07/2026 21:33

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 21:31

This time round its the first month. So not expecting it to happen so quick. Tried 2 years for my eldest, 3 months for my middle child and my youngest was a surprise. They all have the same dad. This one would have a different dad so we're not sure how our fertility is

You never know ☺️ sending lots of baby dust!

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 21:52

Emmie93 · 06/07/2026 21:33

You never know ☺️ sending lots of baby dust!

Thank you

ThereWereNoUsernamesLeft · 06/07/2026 22:12

ThisNoisyLemur · 05/07/2026 23:36

Hey :)
Trying for baby number 2 - cycle 10 of trying after falling pregnant first try last time!

good luck to everyone! Xx

Also on cycle 10 now, Cd1 but feeling optimistic, just bought conceive plus to try. Which cycle day are you?

ThereWereNoUsernamesLeft · 06/07/2026 22:21

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 20:47

I'm a bit confused, thought i was in my 2ww but had positive ovulation test for 3 days now.

How many dpo are you? Not to get your hopes up but if you're towards the end of your 2ww LH and HCG are molecularly very similar so I would take a pregnancy test. If you're early on you can disregard it as only the first positive counts.

inkgirl · 06/07/2026 22:25

ThereWereNoUsernamesLeft · 06/07/2026 22:21

How many dpo are you? Not to get your hopes up but if you're towards the end of your 2ww LH and HCG are molecularly very similar so I would take a pregnancy test. If you're early on you can disregard it as only the first positive counts.

Going on my ovulation tests, I'd be 2dpo so still very early days

ThisNoisyLemur · 06/07/2026 22:37

ThereWereNoUsernamesLeft · 06/07/2026 22:12

Also on cycle 10 now, Cd1 but feeling optimistic, just bought conceive plus to try. Which cycle day are you?

aww it feels like forever doesn’t it, although I know people try for much longer too!

Oo good luck :) I just bought some more OPKs this month too, used them a few months ago and it seemed like we were getting our timings right with EWCM so stopped using them, but going to try again this month.

Im CD 9 so going to do my OPK in the morning and get down to it the next few days!

what cycle day are you?

:)

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