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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

'Arm the Dolls'

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WrongKindOfFeminist · 05/07/2026 10:23

Pictured is Natacha Kennedy of Goldsmiths.

T shirt says 'Arm the Dolls'

'Arm the Dolls'
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TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 22:04

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 21:55

The Cass Review did not conclude that transgender identities themselves are illegitimate. Instead, it argued for a holistic, psychologically-led approach to care for young people. In fact, Cass believed puberty blockers may be the right option for a subset of young people.

No, I’m not talking about MRI scans or ‘lady brains’. I’m talking about the fact gender dysphoria is a clinically observed and recognised condition. There is decades of research looking at transgender people and gender dysphoria, and treatments and outcomes.

People presented to doctors with distress about their sex. That doesn’t happen for age or race.

Body dismorphia is an established medical condition. However this is not the same as being 'trans'.

Body dismorphia can take different forms. Sometimes it is distress about one's sex organs, but it can also be distress around limbs such as legs. However, being 'transabled' is not recognised as a legitimate 'identity' either.

So, that's not answering the question put to you, now is it?

moto748e · Yesterday 22:05

Pingponghavoc · Yesterday 20:37

Men decide that they are happier being a woman, therefore the definition of women changes to accommodate them.

Women talk about the trauma and worry this causes them, and organise to maintain single sex facilities. Meanwhile the men complain about how this discussion and action causes them distress.

How dare women be anything without the permission or inclusion of men.

The fact that men are dumbfounded by how women feel should give them a clue that they know nothing about being a woman.

You have a way with words, @Pingponghavoc !

Pingponghavoc · Yesterday 22:09

There are lots of people distressed about their age. Going through menopause can be depressing, so can becoming old. Few of us want to be living in 96 year old bodies.

If we told our doctors we are depressed about getting older, they would be sympathetic but what could they do?

The medical profession has observed that some people present as the opposite sex. Thats all.

The medical profession has developed surgery and drugs that can alter a person's external appearance. Thats all.

Governments have allowed people to falsify official documents, that's all.

There is no test that can determine who is and who isnt trans. If there was and you failed it, would you cease to present as a woman? I know i wouldnt pretend to be a man if I passed such a test.

The research is just observing peoples behaviour.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:10

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 22:04

Body dismorphia is an established medical condition. However this is not the same as being 'trans'.

Body dismorphia can take different forms. Sometimes it is distress about one's sex organs, but it can also be distress around limbs such as legs. However, being 'transabled' is not recognised as a legitimate 'identity' either.

So, that's not answering the question put to you, now is it?

The argument that distress along doesn’t create an identity has validity. That is exactly why medicine looks beyond the distress to the nature of the condition.

Medicine treats being transgender as a legitimate identity because it involves a non-distorted mismatch with a universal social category, and transitioning leads to high functioning and improved quality of life. It treats dysmorphia and limb-rejection as psychiatric or neurological conditions because they represent perceptual distortions, mapping errors, or requests that fundamentally impair a person's physical rather than helping them function within society.

Seethlaw · Yesterday 22:14

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 21:55

The Cass Review did not conclude that transgender identities themselves are illegitimate. Instead, it argued for a holistic, psychologically-led approach to care for young people. In fact, Cass believed puberty blockers may be the right option for a subset of young people.

No, I’m not talking about MRI scans or ‘lady brains’. I’m talking about the fact gender dysphoria is a clinically observed and recognised condition. There is decades of research looking at transgender people and gender dysphoria, and treatments and outcomes.

People presented to doctors with distress about their sex. That doesn’t happen for age or race.

People presented to doctors with distress about their sex. That doesn’t happen for age or race.

That is very much not true at all. Millions, possibly billions, of people spend unimaginable amounts of money on cosmetics and surgeries to combat aging or modify their racial appearance. The market is absolutely enormous. Trans people are barely a drop in the ocean by comparison.

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 22:16

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:10

The argument that distress along doesn’t create an identity has validity. That is exactly why medicine looks beyond the distress to the nature of the condition.

Medicine treats being transgender as a legitimate identity because it involves a non-distorted mismatch with a universal social category, and transitioning leads to high functioning and improved quality of life. It treats dysmorphia and limb-rejection as psychiatric or neurological conditions because they represent perceptual distortions, mapping errors, or requests that fundamentally impair a person's physical rather than helping them function within society.

Do I detect the presence of AI in this answer?

However even with your AI help, you miss the point that 'transitioning' is not a treatment for anything. Transitioning is a non sequitur. What do you transition from or to?

In all kinds of body dismorphia, removal of the limb/organ in question has been considered as a treatment. The benefit of this approach is highly contested in all types of body dismorphia.

Bringing 'identity' into it is just gibberish to justify men's fetishes. A gender 'identity' is not a verifiable thing. No man has a legitimate 'female identity'.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:18

Pingponghavoc · Yesterday 22:09

There are lots of people distressed about their age. Going through menopause can be depressing, so can becoming old. Few of us want to be living in 96 year old bodies.

If we told our doctors we are depressed about getting older, they would be sympathetic but what could they do?

The medical profession has observed that some people present as the opposite sex. Thats all.

The medical profession has developed surgery and drugs that can alter a person's external appearance. Thats all.

Governments have allowed people to falsify official documents, that's all.

There is no test that can determine who is and who isnt trans. If there was and you failed it, would you cease to present as a woman? I know i wouldnt pretend to be a man if I passed such a test.

The research is just observing peoples behaviour.

There are lots of people distressed about their age. Going through menopause can be depressing, so can becoming old. Few of us want to be living in 96 year old bodies.
That’s not quite the same thing though. Distress from natural aging is different to distress caused by identifying with a different age. People identifying as a different age or race just doesn’t exist in clinical data.

On being unable to test for it I disagree. In medicine, it is classified based on persistent subjective distress and behaviour, much like depression, anxiety, or ADHD. None of them have a physical "test" either, yet are treated as real clinical phenomena

Seethlaw · Yesterday 22:24

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:10

The argument that distress along doesn’t create an identity has validity. That is exactly why medicine looks beyond the distress to the nature of the condition.

Medicine treats being transgender as a legitimate identity because it involves a non-distorted mismatch with a universal social category, and transitioning leads to high functioning and improved quality of life. It treats dysmorphia and limb-rejection as psychiatric or neurological conditions because they represent perceptual distortions, mapping errors, or requests that fundamentally impair a person's physical rather than helping them function within society.

Except that gender dysphoria also represents "a perceptual distortion, mapping error, or request that fundamentally impair a person's physical [what?] rather than helping them function within society."

Transitioning is exactly the same as dysmorphia and limb-rejection, since it involves creating health problems through administration of cross-sex hormones, and cutting up healthy body parts.

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 22:24

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:18

There are lots of people distressed about their age. Going through menopause can be depressing, so can becoming old. Few of us want to be living in 96 year old bodies.
That’s not quite the same thing though. Distress from natural aging is different to distress caused by identifying with a different age. People identifying as a different age or race just doesn’t exist in clinical data.

On being unable to test for it I disagree. In medicine, it is classified based on persistent subjective distress and behaviour, much like depression, anxiety, or ADHD. None of them have a physical "test" either, yet are treated as real clinical phenomena

My aunt refused to reference her age or mark her birthday and got extremely upset when anyone else did, after the age of 50.

I doubt she ever brought that up with her doctor, but until the last decade the majority of 'trans identifying men' wouldn't have done so either. Our historical awareness of cross dressing men comes mostly from the social clubs they created, not medicine.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:31

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 22:24

My aunt refused to reference her age or mark her birthday and got extremely upset when anyone else did, after the age of 50.

I doubt she ever brought that up with her doctor, but until the last decade the majority of 'trans identifying men' wouldn't have done so either. Our historical awareness of cross dressing men comes mostly from the social clubs they created, not medicine.

That’s still not the same thing. Your aunt not liking getting older is not the same as her having distress because she thinks she is a different age.

If she was so distressed she couldn’t refer to her age or celebrate she probably should’ve got some help.

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 22:35

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:31

That’s still not the same thing. Your aunt not liking getting older is not the same as her having distress because she thinks she is a different age.

If she was so distressed she couldn’t refer to her age or celebrate she probably should’ve got some help.

Well that's interesting ...

If she was so distressed she couldn’t refer to her age or celebrate she probably should’ve got some help.

Totally agree. But to paraphrase ...

If he was so distressed he couldn’t acknowledge his sex he probably should get some help.

Exactly the same principle.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:37

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 22:35

Well that's interesting ...

If she was so distressed she couldn’t refer to her age or celebrate she probably should’ve got some help.

Totally agree. But to paraphrase ...

If he was so distressed he couldn’t acknowledge his sex he probably should get some help.

Exactly the same principle.

Yes exactly. And the help for that situation is medical transition.

Heggettypeg · Yesterday 22:37

There's plenty of evidence of people identifying out of their race. White people identifying as Native Americans reached the point of causing serious offence; it was quite a fashion at one time; and then there are people like Rachel Dolezal who identify as Black.
The only reason they don't appear in medical records is that discomfort with one's race and identification with another one has not - yet - been framed as something you can go to a doctor to fix.

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 22:37

If anyone had suggested to my aunt that her 'identity' was that of someone younger I think she would have seen that as a totally accurate summary of how she felt.

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 22:38

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:37

Yes exactly. And the help for that situation is medical transition.

There's no such thing as 'transition'.

No one can change sex, just as no one can change age.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:40

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 22:38

There's no such thing as 'transition'.

No one can change sex, just as no one can change age.

What do trans people do if they don’t transition in some way?

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 22:42

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:40

What do trans people do if they don’t transition in some way?

They take synthetic hormones / have cosmetic surgery.

Seethlaw · Yesterday 22:45

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:40

What do trans people do if they don’t transition in some way?

Body modification within one's sex. Transition implies escaping one's sex to some degree, which is impossible. The changes are purely cosmetic; the basis (the sexed body) doesn't change.

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 22:47

Seethlaw · Yesterday 22:45

Body modification within one's sex. Transition implies escaping one's sex to some degree, which is impossible. The changes are purely cosmetic; the basis (the sexed body) doesn't change.

When you put it like that, it's pretty much the same as having a facelift or whatever. Cosmetic changes can be made via surgery/medicine. However they do not change the reality of age/sex.

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:53

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 22:42

They take synthetic hormones / have cosmetic surgery.

Whatever you want to call it, medical treatment is indicated for people presenting with gender dysphoria.

murasaki · Yesterday 23:03

Still doesn't make anyone any more than a poor facsimile of the thing they are not.

Seethlaw · Yesterday 23:04

Makes me kinda sad how the various trans and TRA people who come around here never seem to show any curiosity about the causes of trans, the types of trans, or whether we can hope to find a better treatment one day than just fundamentally messing with our bodies and cutting them up 😔As Bailey would say: just because this is how things are now, doesn't mean it is how things ought to be!

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 23:05

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 22:53

Whatever you want to call it, medical treatment is indicated for people presenting with gender dysphoria.

So? Cosmetic surgery is a common enough practice. It doesn't indicate a medical condition

DumbfoundedAndUnhappy · Yesterday 23:15

TheKeatingFive · Yesterday 23:05

So? Cosmetic surgery is a common enough practice. It doesn't indicate a medical condition

Gender dysphoria is the medical condition, and hormones and surgery is the treatment

WrongKindOfFeminist · Yesterday 23:15

You know most of us really dont care how consenting adults choose to live.

So long as men stay the fuck out of women's spaces. And kids dont get told they can change sex. And people aren't compelled to pretend that changing sex is possible, or to use the wrong words or mouth absurdities.

'Arm the dolls' indeed.

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