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Mail story: Teenage 'trans student who dressed as a dog stabs parents to death and knifes pet golden retriever'

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RoyalCorgi · 28/06/2026 11:50

https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-15923249/Trans-furry-dog-stabs-parents-death-golden-retriever.html

Opening paragraphs:

"A teen who attended school as a 'furry' dressed as a dog has been accused of killing his parents and stabbing their dog - then sharing macabre images of the scene with fellow students.

"The schoolboy, 15, who is reportedly transitioning from girl to boy, was arrested last week in Groningen in the Netherlands and charged with double murder, according to Dutch outlet RTL."

Horrific story, but notable because this is a girl identifying as a boy who has apparently killed her own parents. She also identified as a dog, and, if the article is to be believed, she and her friends were allowed to attend school dressed as dogs.

NB The article is all over the place with pronouns.

Verdachte (15) van drama Meerstad door OM beschuldigd van dubbele moord

Verdachte (15) van drama Meerstad door OM beschuldigd van dubbele moord

De 15-jarige verdachte van het drama in het Groningse Meerstad wordt door het Openbaar Ministerie beschuldigd van dubbele moord. Het kind wordt ervan verdacht diens ouders om het leven te hebben gebracht en blijft 14 dagen langer vastzitten.

https://www.rtl.nl/nieuws/binnenland/artikel/5618637/meerstad-omgekomen-ouders-tienerdochter-misdrijf-beelden-gedeeld

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RoyalCorgi · 29/06/2026 08:21

Bravo, RedToothBrush. You are absolutely right.

The craziness of this - no, the deep, irresponsible cruelty and malignity of it - is that this is a young girl who is clearly very troubled indeed and in desperate need of mental health support. What does she get instead? Affirmation that she is "trans" and that all is fine and dandy. What a sick society.

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NoisyHiker · 29/06/2026 08:24

And this is what happens when obvious signs of mental illness are ignored for the sake of being progressive.

Believing you are something you are not (like a fucking dog) should be an automatic referral to get psychiatric help.

Now we have cctv we should also bring back the asylums. It would create jobs and could be implemented in a way that protects patients.

1dayatatime · 29/06/2026 08:28

ERthree · 28/06/2026 13:46

Where can a girl that wants to be a boy and dresses as a dog ever be "normal" why the hell wasn't this girl being cared for in a mental health facility? She obviously had huge problems before she killed so why the hell was she loose on the streets?
we have normalised " disturbed" . We are also bloody scared of not being "inclusive" that we won't step up and say someone is crazy, in fact we won't even use that word anymore even when it is bloody obvious that if someone thinks they are dog that they are bloody crazy.
We have created this madness.

The reason for this madness is the cult of "be kind".

On the surface of course it is better to be kind than be nasty. So objecting to the "be kind" message must automatically make you a bad person.

But the problem is that this message takes priority over reality and facts. The "be kind" message also makes "victim hood" a compelling and preferable goal to "self resilience".

The reality is that this young human girl with XX chromosomes was not a male and was not a dog. Rather than point out these facts, the be kind message not only encouraged her and her friends to live out this madness rather than seek psychological help, it also forces the sane members of society to be brainwashed into accepting something as true which clearly it is not (she's not male and not a dog) all in the name of "be kind".

From an Orwellian 1984 perspective it's all quite chilling.

WrongKindOfFeminist · 29/06/2026 09:01

Zoonosis · 28/06/2026 15:34

The two most recent school shooters in the U.S were both trans identified.

I've just looked at the most recent 10 school shooters listed on Wikipedia (which was last updated on June 17th) and none of them were trans so no this isn't true. I think what you actually mean here is "the two most recent school shooters in the US that I heard about were trans; it has not occurred to me there might also have been multiple others who weren't trans and therefore I didn't hear about as they were not amplified through the same anti-trans channels where I heard about the other ones".

And in fact here's a Reuters article which soundly debunks your claim, noting there have been fewer than 10 trans or non-binary mass shooters in the US in the space of the last decade, making up about 0.11% of total shootings - given that the number of trans people in the US is about 0.5% this is actually less than you'd expect based on pure demographics, which suggests trans people are actually less likely to commit mass shootings than other groups.

https://www.reuters.com/article/fact-check/majority-of-us-mass-shooters-are-cis-men-not-transgender-or-non-binary-people-idUSL1N363273/

Nothing else you've claimed has any evidence or source to back it up. The few individual cases that you mention do not prove a trend or anything that can be generalised to a whole demographic. I think you need to do some honest thinking about both reporting bias and confirmation bias and whether these are affecting the way that you think about trans people.

Leaving aside any 'gender' issues, how utterly horrifying it is that this is a genre of violence that has enough instances to discuss percentages like this.

TheKeatingFive · 29/06/2026 09:22

1dayatatime · 29/06/2026 08:28

The reason for this madness is the cult of "be kind".

On the surface of course it is better to be kind than be nasty. So objecting to the "be kind" message must automatically make you a bad person.

But the problem is that this message takes priority over reality and facts. The "be kind" message also makes "victim hood" a compelling and preferable goal to "self resilience".

The reality is that this young human girl with XX chromosomes was not a male and was not a dog. Rather than point out these facts, the be kind message not only encouraged her and her friends to live out this madness rather than seek psychological help, it also forces the sane members of society to be brainwashed into accepting something as true which clearly it is not (she's not male and not a dog) all in the name of "be kind".

From an Orwellian 1984 perspective it's all quite chilling.

Exactly. There are situations where genuinely ethical behaviour is about acknowledging tough facts and taking tough calls.

Thats all been swept away for 'kindness', which as a virtue, needs other virtues to counter it.

'Be kind' strikes me as very often a cowardly position, dressed up as a moral one. It's embraced by people who don't want to engage with anything difficult, they want to make nice noises and pat themselves on the back.

CassOle · 29/06/2026 10:16

It is also not actually 'kind' in the true meaning of the word.

It is not kind to lie to people about the truth.
It is not kind to force people to lie through manipulation, threats and fear.
It is not kind to create a group of people who think they can 'control the perception of others' and fall apart when someone won't or can't go along with their demands.

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/06/2026 10:25

Zoonosis · 28/06/2026 15:34

The two most recent school shooters in the U.S were both trans identified.

I've just looked at the most recent 10 school shooters listed on Wikipedia (which was last updated on June 17th) and none of them were trans so no this isn't true. I think what you actually mean here is "the two most recent school shooters in the US that I heard about were trans; it has not occurred to me there might also have been multiple others who weren't trans and therefore I didn't hear about as they were not amplified through the same anti-trans channels where I heard about the other ones".

And in fact here's a Reuters article which soundly debunks your claim, noting there have been fewer than 10 trans or non-binary mass shooters in the US in the space of the last decade, making up about 0.11% of total shootings - given that the number of trans people in the US is about 0.5% this is actually less than you'd expect based on pure demographics, which suggests trans people are actually less likely to commit mass shootings than other groups.

https://www.reuters.com/article/fact-check/majority-of-us-mass-shooters-are-cis-men-not-transgender-or-non-binary-people-idUSL1N363273/

Nothing else you've claimed has any evidence or source to back it up. The few individual cases that you mention do not prove a trend or anything that can be generalised to a whole demographic. I think you need to do some honest thinking about both reporting bias and confirmation bias and whether these are affecting the way that you think about trans people.

Article from yesterday's Times......suggestive of what I've already said which is rather than trans crimes being "amplified" by the media, they are actually disguised.

"The story concerned a 21-year-old man called Darren Rigby who had indicated he was preparing to act on his apparent murderous hatred of women and girls. Over the course of a week, in January this year, Rigby sent terrifying messages to three all-girls schools on Merseyside. Rigby told one: “I am on my way… with a revolver and a machete and I’m going to shoot and stab all of your girls. You terfs are going to learn to stop mocking, deadnaming and misgendering transwomen like me.” Terf stands for “trans-exclusionary radical feminist”, a derogatory term for women who do not accept that biological males can be women.

In another email, Rigby said his intention was “to injure and kill as many girls as I can”. This month at Liverpool crown court Rigby was sentenced to two years and four months in prison after admitting three charges of sending communications threatening death or serious harm. The specific nature of Rigby’s threats was made public during sentencing and there was a BBC reporter present throughout. Despite the newsworthiness of the details revealed in court, the BBC’s write-up of Rigby’s crimes ignored Rigby’s self-declared trans status. His apparent motive, so-called terfs “misgendering” him, was not mentioned. The article didn’t even make clear that Rigby’s violent threats were aimed exclusively at women and girls in single-sex schools. The BBC report bore a striking resemblance to a press release published on the Merseyside police website, which also elided all mention of Rigby’s emails."

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/media/article/bbc-apology-trans-story-darren-rigby-llq3kdqfn

What the curious case of Darren Rigby says about BBC trans coverage

After years of dismissing concerns about its reporting of transgender issues, the corporation has apologised for a story it got badly wrong

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/media/article/bbc-apology-trans-story-darren-rigby-llq3kdqfn

WrongKindOfFeminist · 29/06/2026 11:54

https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=6182901

'Transgender people are often portrayed as especially vulnerable to violence, but estimating victimization rates is difficult because reliable population denominators are lacking. This paper proposes an alternative approach, comparing the ratio of transgender homicide victims to perpetrators. It analyzes all homicides involving transgender people in Britain from 2000 to 2025. Victims were outnumbered by perpetrators, even excluding those who declared a transgender identity after imprisonment. Almost all cases involved natal males identifying as transwomen. The victim-perpetrator ratio among these individuals closely resembles that for males overall and differs markedly from that for females. BBC News published more than four times as many articles on transgender victims as on perpetrators, contributing to perceptions of exceptional vulnerability. '

RedToothBrush · 29/06/2026 14:21

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/06/2026 10:25

Article from yesterday's Times......suggestive of what I've already said which is rather than trans crimes being "amplified" by the media, they are actually disguised.

"The story concerned a 21-year-old man called Darren Rigby who had indicated he was preparing to act on his apparent murderous hatred of women and girls. Over the course of a week, in January this year, Rigby sent terrifying messages to three all-girls schools on Merseyside. Rigby told one: “I am on my way… with a revolver and a machete and I’m going to shoot and stab all of your girls. You terfs are going to learn to stop mocking, deadnaming and misgendering transwomen like me.” Terf stands for “trans-exclusionary radical feminist”, a derogatory term for women who do not accept that biological males can be women.

In another email, Rigby said his intention was “to injure and kill as many girls as I can”. This month at Liverpool crown court Rigby was sentenced to two years and four months in prison after admitting three charges of sending communications threatening death or serious harm. The specific nature of Rigby’s threats was made public during sentencing and there was a BBC reporter present throughout. Despite the newsworthiness of the details revealed in court, the BBC’s write-up of Rigby’s crimes ignored Rigby’s self-declared trans status. His apparent motive, so-called terfs “misgendering” him, was not mentioned. The article didn’t even make clear that Rigby’s violent threats were aimed exclusively at women and girls in single-sex schools. The BBC report bore a striking resemblance to a press release published on the Merseyside police website, which also elided all mention of Rigby’s emails."

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/media/article/bbc-apology-trans-story-darren-rigby-llq3kdqfn

Edited

The disguising actually creates it own problem for amplification - that authorities are lying and concealing the truth. It means that it destroys trust. That's far right and conspiracy theory gold dust. It feeds narratives like two tier justice.

turquoiseshell · 29/06/2026 16:02

NumberTheory · 29/06/2026 03:57

Notable, I think, that the school was allowing children to come to school dressed as dogs - something the left has repeatedly assured us is a lie put about by right-wing outlets.

Dutch schools rarely have uniform or anything other than pretty basic dress codes banning unsafe or objectively offensive clothing, so this aspect was probably not as notable as it might have been in a British school.

The girl seems to have been hugely let down, though. And now two people are dead and the rest of the child's life will be a mess.

The children dressed as animals apparently sometimes sat on the table and made animal noises:

"Going to school as a ‘furry’
The suspect is said to belong to a group of friends who – according to a number of pupils – sometimes come to school wearing animal ears and a tail as so-called ‘furries’. One pupil said: “They would sometimes sit on the table and make animal noises.”

A friend says she is completely shaken by it all. She had suspected for some time that the teenager was struggling. “He was very nice. Often quiet. But he also had problems. I raised this with the school, but they said the teachers couldn’t do anything about it because he didn’t want to talk about it.”"

Presumably they should have 1) spoken to the parents to see if they were getting help for the teenager, 2) brought in Social Services or some kind of mental health services, it that's possible in the Netherlands.

turquoiseshell · 29/06/2026 16:27

I've had a quick look at Dutch Reddit and there's some healthy debate going on there, as to whether being a furry was just an inoffensive hobby which had nothing to do with the teenager's being messed up and killing her parents (and it's fine to change your pronouns), or whether it's highly relevant to the crime. And some - How have we got here? posts.

WrongKindOfFeminist · 29/06/2026 16:43

Extract from Biggs' paper I link upthread:

'Differentiating articles that mentioned that the individual was transgender from those that did not, there is a marked difference between the BBC’s treatment of victims and perpetrators.

Where a transgender person was the victim, the great majority of articles mentioned their trans identity, usually fairly close to the top of the story. The article reporting the conviction of Ghey’s murderers, for example, mentioned this in the second sentence: ‘The 16-year-old, who was transgender, was stabbed 28 times in a ‘ferocious’ attack …’. The sole exception was the reporting on Amy Griffiths. Only one out of three articles mentioned ‘her transgender identity’
(in quoting the judge), and that occurred only in the nineteenth sentence.

Where the transgender person was the perpetrator, by contrast, just under half the articles mentioned the fact that they were transgender. The difference in treatment is statistically significant: the 95% credible interval for the probability of an article on a perpetrator mentioning their transgender identity was 0.34–0.59, while for a victim it was 0.75–0.88 (or 0.67–0.89 omitting Ghey).7 A notable example is Blake. Most articles referred simply to an ‘Oxford woman’. Only a few mentioned that ‘she came out to her parents as transgender at
12’—and then only in the sixth sentence. This fact was added to one article only after complaints from readers (BBC 2024).

Furthermore, in a few cases where a perpetrator’s transgender status was reported, the focus was on them as a victim of suicide. Reports on Jenny
Swift and Rowan Thompson that mentioned their transgender identity focused on their suicide while incarcerated, with headlines such as ‘Transgender woman found dead in cell at HMP Doncaster’. The fact that they had committed murder was mentioned only later in the articles.

In total, then, BBC News produced 4.5 times as many articles mentioning transgender victims as articles mentioning transgender perpetrators (and some of the latter framed them primarily as victims of suicide), even though in reality perpetrators outnumbered victims.'

WrongKindOfFeminist · 29/06/2026 16:45

'...more transgender people committed homicide than were victims of homicide in Britain in the 21st century. The victim/perpetrator ratio was 0.7 excluding post-imprisonment transitioners.
Without reliable figures on the transgender population, it is unknown whether transgender people were at greater risk of homicide than the population as a whole. If they were at greater risk than the population, however, then we would also conclude—given the victim/perpetrator ratio was less than one—that they were more likely to commit homicide. If the extent of fatal violence suffered by transgender people in Britain is considered to be an epidemic, then the
same epithet applies to the fatal violence inflicted by transgender people.'

My italics.

likelysuspect · 29/06/2026 18:40

ERthree · 28/06/2026 13:46

Where can a girl that wants to be a boy and dresses as a dog ever be "normal" why the hell wasn't this girl being cared for in a mental health facility? She obviously had huge problems before she killed so why the hell was she loose on the streets?
we have normalised " disturbed" . We are also bloody scared of not being "inclusive" that we won't step up and say someone is crazy, in fact we won't even use that word anymore even when it is bloody obvious that if someone thinks they are dog that they are bloody crazy.
We have created this madness.

Need to repeat this

We have normalised 'disturbed'.

Made it fun and edgy, being your 'true self'.

Cailin66 · 29/06/2026 18:55

Are children in the Netherlands allowed go to school dressed up as animals? And does the staff and pupils have to pretend they are a dog/cat etc?

ScrollingLeaves · 29/06/2026 19:02

turquoiseshell · 28/06/2026 20:33

Apparently the Netherlands have just passed a law against conversion therapy. I don't know the detail of it but no doubt it's online.

Where everything will be upside down and children being converted to trans is the norm.

ButlerianJihadNow · 29/06/2026 19:28

BettyBooper · 28/06/2026 15:40

There's also Alec McKinney (born Maya McKinney) posted about upthread.

ChatGPT is worse than useless as a source here. Waste of time.

1dayatatime · 29/06/2026 22:03

likelysuspect · 29/06/2026 18:40

Need to repeat this

We have normalised 'disturbed'.

Made it fun and edgy, being your 'true self'.

All in the name of "Be Kind".

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/06/2026 22:24

WrongKindOfFeminist · 29/06/2026 16:43

Extract from Biggs' paper I link upthread:

'Differentiating articles that mentioned that the individual was transgender from those that did not, there is a marked difference between the BBC’s treatment of victims and perpetrators.

Where a transgender person was the victim, the great majority of articles mentioned their trans identity, usually fairly close to the top of the story. The article reporting the conviction of Ghey’s murderers, for example, mentioned this in the second sentence: ‘The 16-year-old, who was transgender, was stabbed 28 times in a ‘ferocious’ attack …’. The sole exception was the reporting on Amy Griffiths. Only one out of three articles mentioned ‘her transgender identity’
(in quoting the judge), and that occurred only in the nineteenth sentence.

Where the transgender person was the perpetrator, by contrast, just under half the articles mentioned the fact that they were transgender. The difference in treatment is statistically significant: the 95% credible interval for the probability of an article on a perpetrator mentioning their transgender identity was 0.34–0.59, while for a victim it was 0.75–0.88 (or 0.67–0.89 omitting Ghey).7 A notable example is Blake. Most articles referred simply to an ‘Oxford woman’. Only a few mentioned that ‘she came out to her parents as transgender at
12’—and then only in the sixth sentence. This fact was added to one article only after complaints from readers (BBC 2024).

Furthermore, in a few cases where a perpetrator’s transgender status was reported, the focus was on them as a victim of suicide. Reports on Jenny
Swift and Rowan Thompson that mentioned their transgender identity focused on their suicide while incarcerated, with headlines such as ‘Transgender woman found dead in cell at HMP Doncaster’. The fact that they had committed murder was mentioned only later in the articles.

In total, then, BBC News produced 4.5 times as many articles mentioning transgender victims as articles mentioning transgender perpetrators (and some of the latter framed them primarily as victims of suicide), even though in reality perpetrators outnumbered victims.'

Yes, “Jenny” committed a particularly horrible murder of a young man.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-south-yorkshire-41671870

Eric Flanagan

Man unlawfully killed in Balby house attack

Transgender woman Jennifer Swift attacked Eric Flanagan with a kitchen knife and broken shovel.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-south-yorkshire-41671870

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 29/06/2026 23:07

So a teenager who identifies as a dog and spends time dressed up as a dog... turns out to be a danger to dogs and humans.

I am reminded of Scarlet Blake, who claimed to have multiple personality disorder, one of which was a cat, and who meowed at the jury during his trial for animal cruelty to a cat and murder. Scarlet Blake was also a danger to cats and humans, and was convicted of torturing and killing that cat and murdering a man.

Furries may identify as animals, but they don't necessarily identify with those animals, eh?

LeftieRightsHoarder · 30/06/2026 22:10

ThatZanyFatball · 28/06/2026 13:12

Take a girl who's already so mentally unstable she goes to school dressed like an animal and instead of giving her therapy just pump her full of testosterone. What could go wrong?

Indeed. And this wasn't contested by anyone at the school, or the education authority, or the clinic that treated her, or the health authority, or any other adult in a position of responsibility?

No one wants to lose their job or risk being ostracised. But I will never understand how this lunacy has so quickly and easily spread around the world and paralysed the people and organisations that could have prevented it.

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