It's insane.
If we were affirming identity fully then this girl was a dog, and should not have been going to school and her parents should not have been recieving benefits and she should not have been eligible for healthcare. She should go to the vets when needed and this would be fully chargeable.
So everyone involved, can see she is human so what purpose does affirming as a dog serve? This might sound like a silly question and point but it's central to just how insane these ideas are and how glaring the lack of appropriate mental health support is.
The authorities were allowing her to present and identify as a dog. Why? As I say this actually has no end goal and certainly doesn't parallel with the idea that you are who you say you are with sex. This child simultaneously is told she can identify as a boy and if she does, she really is a boy. And then is being positively affirmed as a dog, but is expected to still go to school. Think about this contradiction. Everyone expects her to ultimately grow out of the dog phase and be a human. Otherwise the alternative is a stray dog living on the streets with no notion of wrong or right, just food and sex and animalistic urges.
Whenever you have medical treatment the focus should be as much on the end goal as managing current systems because of the possibilities of long term harm. We don't allow some people some treatments because they have serious side effects or can cause long term harm even if they may help with current symptoms.
This case, regardless of how it's ended in the awful murder of two people, really highlights the screwed up thinking and unethical treatment of a child. Everyone here knows she's not a dog and yet they've continued to fail to challenge the behaviour and address why it is happening and why she shouldn't be doing it. Instead they encouraged it and didn't think about the contradiction between saying yes you can become a man just because you say so and no you can't become a dog just because you say so.
It is massively relevant to point this out. Especially in the context of a mental health crisis in young people. Just today there's a report out on referrals to mental health services for children (front page of BBC news) with anxiety related issues, ADHD and autism significant groups.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cwyd1l0lge8o
In the UK there is a known clear lack of support and intervention. I don't know about the Dutch system generally but this case strongly suggests this girl falls between the cracks because of her trans identity (the dog affirmation business lays it starkly out). And more generally in the UK we can't explain this rise in our society and why we have a generation struggling to cope. It speaks of a wider cultural issue. The Netherlands is one of our closest cultural matches despite the language difference. Culturally we are a closer match to the Netherlands than the USA.
This isn't a trans related story as such. It's one about mental health provision. This is the lens it should be viewed through because of so many questions about why this girl was being allowed to behave like this and was being encouraged to do so.
This in terms raises inconvenient truths and conversations about trans issues. Not the other way round (this distinction is important). If you were affirming this child and that was the 'right approach' then you should still be saying that behaviour isn't ok and needs mental health support. (This is where we need to have massive conversations about best practices in trans identifying teens and the whole premise of affirmation only as the only practice collapses - remembering this is the model of care so many campaigner are aiming for and see as the goal)
This kid didn't do this because she was trans. This kid did this because she a child showing significant signs of mental distress which were being positively affirmed as ok behaviours. Authorities were cheerleading red flags with red flags. It's a red flag parade.