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Going away for school holidays & nobody to do the bins?

62 replies

gardenhenn · Today 12:27

We are taking DC away for a significant amount of time during the 6 weeks holidays and will have nobody to do the bins.

Have asked my parents as they live 25 minutes away but have said it's too far and they also workZ

Siblings/cousins also work and have their own kids to look after and would be unfair as again live 25 minutes away in the same town as parents.

Now, I have never had an argument or falling out with neighbours.

But there is tension due to the varying issues around this estate and I don't speak to my NDN on the right ( I would do her bins at times but she has stopped saying hello/speaking to everyone which suits me fine as she makes me feel uncomfortable).

I do exchange small talk/ hello with the other and get on OK but form feel comfortable asking her.

We genuinely don't know what to do.
Anybody been in a similar situation?

The only solution would be to leave the bins until we get back?

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GasPanic · Today 12:56

upupandaway45 · Today 12:54

Why don’t you just leave the bins out on the end of your drive when you leave

Because then they will stay out there for weeks, signalling to all around that you are actually away for a long period.

They will probably also be full of crap when you get back. That is if they haven't been pinched.

jeaux90 · Today 12:56

Do you not have a local dump/recycling centre near where you can take everything just before you leave?

SkinnyOatFlatWhiteForMePleaseBarista · Today 12:57

Bag it up and do a dump run before you go away.

NameChangeScot · Today 12:57

Don't put them out for collection 🤨 return to regular bin schedule when you get back.

palron · Today 13:01

What kind of places do people live in where you can't ask a neighbour to put the bin out once in a blue moon? Sounds ridiculously complicated to do this or that or th'other to get the bin out. Honestly. A quick text and surely a decent neighbour would have no issue. Just leave bin at the front, and neighbour just pulls it out to the pavement, and back up again. It's not like they have to go down the mines for you.

If, on the other hand that just will not work, do as others say, there's plenty of advice from others who may not have willing neighbours either!

NC5057 · Today 13:04

Just pay one of the neighbourhood teens to do it. Do you have a estate/street WhatsApp group you can ask on?

nomas · Today 13:07

gardenhenn · Today 12:30

The general waste bin was just collected so by the time we go in a few weeks it will be half full.

Won't be back until end August.

Have you seen the suggestions re tip?

Surely it’s better to take your rubbish to the tip instead of expecting your parents to do a 50 minute round trip to put your bins out?

Jellycatspyjamas · Today 13:07

We have a local service that will put your bins out and bring them back in, it’s intended for people with mobility issues but they also provide holiday cover. You could see if there’s something like that locally?

Silvers11 · Today 13:16

palron · Today 13:01

What kind of places do people live in where you can't ask a neighbour to put the bin out once in a blue moon? Sounds ridiculously complicated to do this or that or th'other to get the bin out. Honestly. A quick text and surely a decent neighbour would have no issue. Just leave bin at the front, and neighbour just pulls it out to the pavement, and back up again. It's not like they have to go down the mines for you.

If, on the other hand that just will not work, do as others say, there's plenty of advice from others who may not have willing neighbours either!

I was coming on to say this. I find it very sad that people living with neighbours never say hello or ever make small talk, so they don't feel they can ask their nearest neighbour to do this.

It's no big deal to put your neighbour's bin out and take it back in again when it has been emptied. That's what we do here - and you don't need to be best friends with that neighbour either.

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · Today 13:22

Is your recycling bin really half-full? All cardboard packaging flattened out; air squeezed out of the plastic bottles and milk cartons? I obviously don't know about you, but a lot of people just fill their recycling bins with mainly air and no compacting down at all, and then wonder why they get apparently full so quickly.

I agree with PP that, if you're away, you shouldn't be generating any more rubbish or recycling; so all they'll need to contain is what's already in there when you leave plus whatever you create between returning and the next collection.

Even with the general waste bin, I presume you have lidded wheelie bins? It hardly matters if an outside bin gets a bit dirty or smelly over a few weeks - you can always give it a good hose out after you return, if you want to. If recycling is the main issue, you can always just bag up any excess in black bags and shove them in your garage/shed/side passageway/car boot (if you're flying wherever you're going and not taking it with you) - then squash in as much as you can over the next couple of collections after you get back.

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · Today 13:26

Silvers11 · Today 13:16

I was coming on to say this. I find it very sad that people living with neighbours never say hello or ever make small talk, so they don't feel they can ask their nearest neighbour to do this.

It's no big deal to put your neighbour's bin out and take it back in again when it has been emptied. That's what we do here - and you don't need to be best friends with that neighbour either.

Yes, it seems both sad and mad. It's barely any kind of favour to ask - half a minute to put the bin out with their own and then another half a minute to bring it back in when they collect theirs.

They might actually be grateful if it's only half-full when you leave it, as that gives them an extra half a bin to play with if they want to clear out and get rid of any extra rubbish of their own.

You might even find that somebody realises you're away and does it for you anyway, unless your bins are locked/hidden away.

NoSausage · Today 13:28

Do you have any regular home help like a cleaner or gardener that you can ask to do it? You'll need to pay them, obviously.

And ifnits recycling it will be clean anyway so wont be a problem for you to leave it for 6 weeks.

Mycatmax · Today 13:29

Just leave it til you get back?

Musicaltheatremum · Today 13:29

How soon after you return are the Bunns due to be emptied? If not long if they are half full then you just fill the other half after you return.

IamnotSethRogan · Today 13:30

I don't understand the angst about asking a neighbour you get on with ? Taking the bins out is not a big deal. My neighbours always ask me and act like they're inconveniencing me when it is the smallest amount of effort.

Honestly society is pretty fucked if people aren't even willing to wheel a bin a bit up the road for their literal neighbour

LindorDoubleChoc · Today 13:36

The only bin you need to worry about is the food waste bin in the week you go. Presumably your general waste and recycling are all "clean" and you won't be generating any more of it while you're away Confused. We were away recently on recycling bin week. We just left it. My friend who watered my window boxes put the small kerbside food waste bin out for me, I left it in the front garden in the shade.

SooPanda · Today 13:47

gardenhenn · Today 12:29

The thing is it's the recycling bin collection that will be missed, it's half full already and we will miss the collection for that.

Just leave it until you get back then. Recycling won’t go smelly or bad. It can wait. Take the rest of it to the tip

CasperGutman · Today 13:55

We ask our neighbours to put the food waste bin out for us - or last time we only had one little bag and they suggested we just put it straight in their bin. If we couldn't ask the neighbours for some reason then I might take it to the tip, or double wrap it and leave it somewhere secure until we come back, or dispose of it somewhere else.

Everything else is just garden waste, recyclables, dry packaging, tissue paper etc. Nothing bad happens if it sits in the bin for a few weeks. As long as it gets collected eventually, it's all fine.

Lomonald · Today 13:57

gardenhenn · Today 12:29

The thing is it's the recycling bin collection that will be missed, it's half full already and we will miss the collection for that.

I would put it out before you leave and ask the neighbour you do talk to to bring it in , however surely by the time you get back the recycling will be about due again ?

Lomonald · Today 14:00

I barely see 1 set of neighbours we are not "friends" but we always do bins for each other, I think most people are fine doing them,

JustMyView13 · Today 14:14

Take it to the dump before you go? If it’s recycling it’s supposed to be washed anyway so shouldn’t get maggots.

ScrambledEggs12 · Today 14:49

LindorDoubleChoc · Today 13:36

The only bin you need to worry about is the food waste bin in the week you go. Presumably your general waste and recycling are all "clean" and you won't be generating any more of it while you're away Confused. We were away recently on recycling bin week. We just left it. My friend who watered my window boxes put the small kerbside food waste bin out for me, I left it in the front garden in the shade.

Not everyone has a food waste bin. We don't.

Dalesway · Today 15:16

I wouldn't be advertising widely that your house will be empty for weeks. Just do a tip run as suggested or leave until you return.

WanderingStar26 · Today 15:19

A lot of dog walkers would be happy to do this for a small charge - work is thin on the ground at the moment with the heat and people being away - and they tend to be DBS checked.

notgivinga · Today 15:20

We just got back from 7 weeks away and the rubbish in the recycling bin was fine if it’s tins and plastic and it’s all clean it won’t be a problem.

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