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The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath

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MarieDeGournay · 29/06/2026 18:06

Welcome all to the Bluestocking Women's Pub, where food and drink are free as in gluten free, calorie free, alcohol free - but still delicious. And free free too, of course.
Served by highly professional staff who are gerbils.

The Bluestocking Ice-Cold Mojito Foot-bath kept us deliciously cool through the heatwave. Come and join us, in case there's another one🌞

The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath
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MyrtleLion · Yesterday 21:42

Gerbil World Cup HQ: Norway vs. Play School
When the big hand is at 12…

Nobody gave Play School much of a chance. Norway arrived with the settled, faintly humourless calm of the six serious rowers known collectively as the Serious Scandinavians, who did not so much walk onto the pitch as file on in formation, and who had already served notice on this tournament — supporters had queued in the rain for a fortnight just to watch them train. Before kickoff, the whole stand behind Norway’s goal broke into the rowing — arms back, arms forward, in a slow unbroken wave down the terrace, the same solemn motion repeating end to end, not one person smiling, all of them completely serious about it.

Play School arrived with a wooden clock, a spotted dog nobody could quite account for, and a strict insistence on taking it in turns.

Griselda blew the whistle. Gwendoline, pitchside, had already written “backs against the wall” into her notes before a ball had been kicked, which even she admitted afterward was “editorialising”.

Minute 6: Norway came out fast, all width and intent, and should have scored twice before Play School had touched the ball. Both efforts were headed off the line — the second by Big Ted, who hadn’t so much defended it as simply stood in the only available spot, arms out, and let the ball hit her.

Minute 15: Jemima organised a throw-in with the seriousness of a state occasion, measuring the exact distance from the touchline before allowing play to continue, by which point three Norway players had visibly lost the will to press.

Minute 28: GOAL, Norway. A clean, clever move down the left finished first-time, precisely as good as everyone expected them to be. 1-0. Griselda noted it in the margin of her clipboard as “the form result, so far”.

Minute 41: Humpty, vice-captain by unanimous and still-unexplained agreement, took a corner nobody had asked her to take, aimed for nobody in particular, and watched it deflect in off a Norway defender who had been standing there minding her own business. 1-1. Humpty accepted the goal with the calm of someone who had, in fact, meant to do that.

Minute 58: Little Ted, on for a tiring Big Ted, chased down a ball she had no right to reach, won it, and immediately passed it sideways to Poppy, who had been waiting, alphabetised paperwork already filed, for precisely this moment. Poppy’s shot took a wicked deflection off the same unlucky Norway defender and looped in. 2-1, Play School.

Minute 74: Norway threw everyone forward. Wave after wave broke on a Play School defence that kept, somehow, taking it in turns to make the vital tackle — Big Ted, then Jemima, then Big Ted again, never rushed, never out of position, like the whole back line was following a schedule nobody else could see.

Minute 89: Norway finally broke through — a scrambled, desperate equaliser that should have levelled it and settled everyone’s nerves. 2-2. Gwendoline used the phrase “backs against the wall” a second time and this time meant it.

90+4: The clock struck. Literally — Play School’s actual clock, on the touchline, chimed the hour, and in the half-second of confusion that followed, Poppy nutmegged a defender still looking round for the noise, squared it to Humpty, and Humpty finished with the unbothered calm of someone completing a scheduled task. 3-2, Play School.

The final whistle went before Norway could even restart.

Norway’s captain shook every paw with grace and no small amount of disbelief. Big Ted and Little Ted shared the one match shirt for the lap of honour, exactly as they’d shared it in training, and nobody found a second one this time, and nobody minded.

Greta’s line appeared under the glass before the final whistle had finished echoing:
Norway — out. Play School — through. Even a clock can surprise you, if you’re not watching closely enough.

https://myrtlelion.substack.com/p/norway-vs-play-school

The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath
AsWithGlad · Yesterday 21:42

EmpressaurusKitty · Yesterday 21:32

True.

In Georgette Heyer books, the smartest men always wear hessian boots which their valets polish so well that people can see their reflections in them.

This confused me for some time because I associated hessian with primary school craft projects, which seemed right out of context, but apparently these boots were leather & named after the boots worn by German soldiers from Hesse.

I did not know that. Thank you, Empressaurus. Or is it Kitty? Perhaps only to your closest equals friends.

BettyBooper · Yesterday 21:43

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 21:30

Your drink has arrived.

Please excuse Gretal's human hands gloves, they were a birthday present and she's been scaring poor gerbils for days.

Thank you so much!

I may now recover from the civil service tribunal roundabout xxx

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 21:43

backformoreofthesame · Yesterday 21:35

That hessian boot thing always worried me! Thank you @EmpressaurusKitty

evening All. Bored.
no I am not 12

Luckily you've arrived in time for the gerbil world Cup!

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 21:45

Gerbil World Cup HQ: Norway vs. Play School
When the big hand is at 12

Note to self… don't start drinking hot tea at the exact moment you start reading @MyrtleLion latest gerbil saga installment

AsWithGlad · Yesterday 21:46

Welcome, @BettyBooper! I think I've seen you on both Tempest and Sex Matters v DPP threads today.

Chickadeeinme · Yesterday 21:46

Next time I read or reread a Georgette Heyer book I will remember that they are actually leather boots. But shouldn’t Hessian be capitalized in that case?

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 21:47

We have a few games to get through but I have a busy day tomorrow.

Meeting for a charity I volunteer for where some old chap will say we must do an event, and we’ll say, yes we must, and he’ll expect the women to do it.

Then an ECG so I can get some ADHD drugs, then accompanying DSD to her PIP assessment meeting. As we submitted at the end of April, this is quite speedy.

There may be an overnight game reported in the morning, but then it will be an evening kickoff. And we’ll be halfway through the last 16.

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 21:48

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 21:45

Gerbil World Cup HQ: Norway vs. Play School
When the big hand is at 12

Note to self… don't start drinking hot tea at the exact moment you start reading @MyrtleLion latest gerbil saga installment

😂😂😂

AsWithGlad · Yesterday 21:50

I love Play School's insistence on taking turns, Myrtle.

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 21:52

AsWithGlad · Yesterday 21:50

I love Play School's insistence on taking turns, Myrtle.

Me, too.

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 21:54

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 21:47

We have a few games to get through but I have a busy day tomorrow.

Meeting for a charity I volunteer for where some old chap will say we must do an event, and we’ll say, yes we must, and he’ll expect the women to do it.

Then an ECG so I can get some ADHD drugs, then accompanying DSD to her PIP assessment meeting. As we submitted at the end of April, this is quite speedy.

There may be an overnight game reported in the morning, but then it will be an evening kickoff. And we’ll be halfway through the last 16.

Meeting for a charity I volunteer for where some old chap will say we must do an event, and we’ll say, yes we must, and he’ll expect the women to do it.

:"that's a great idea Dave. Why don't you Stan and Henry organise that. Let me know how it goes. "

FuzzyPuffling · Yesterday 21:56

I've just watched that epic match through the arched window.

Which is amazing, as it is usually a milk bottle factory.

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 21:59

FuzzyPuffling · Yesterday 21:56

I've just watched that epic match through the arched window.

Which is amazing, as it is usually a milk bottle factory.

Perfect.

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 22:02

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 21:54

Meeting for a charity I volunteer for where some old chap will say we must do an event, and we’ll say, yes we must, and he’ll expect the women to do it.

:"that's a great idea Dave. Why don't you Stan and Henry organise that. Let me know how it goes. "

This is my plan. I’m already organising/speaking at a guided walk, a gallery exhibition and an afternoon tea/evening lecture. This latter one will be at a lovely venue 60 miles from where I live. All within the next three months as well as a committee meeting in person in London.

Volunteer, they said, it’s four meetings a year. Currently 25 committee meetings (some virtual, some at a day’s notice) plus six events.

I did not sign up for this.

BettyBooper · Yesterday 22:14

AsWithGlad · Yesterday 21:46

Welcome, @BettyBooper! I think I've seen you on both Tempest and Sex Matters v DPP threads today.

Many thanks! I do not regularly frequent this public house, as my parlance is insufficient. Apologies ☹️

But on occasion, a pint of raspberry wine is obligatory!

Thanks again @Boiledbeetle x

inkymoose · Yesterday 22:30

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 18:36

In other news, Ruth Ellis, the last woman to be hanged in England, has been granted a posthumous conditional pardon, converting her death sentence to life imprisonment and her crime to manslaughter.

https://www.gov.uk/government/news/last-woman-to-be-hanged-in-the-uk-pardoned-70-years-on

Edited

Very interesting, thanks for posting.

DauntlessDamson · Yesterday 22:45

I think all the gerbils should receive commemorative shiny medals at the end of the World Cup - the organisers as well as the players. They all show such dedication and effic.....er enthusiasm!

Hello @BettyBooper <waves>

DauntlessDamson · Yesterday 22:52

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 22:02

This is my plan. I’m already organising/speaking at a guided walk, a gallery exhibition and an afternoon tea/evening lecture. This latter one will be at a lovely venue 60 miles from where I live. All within the next three months as well as a committee meeting in person in London.

Volunteer, they said, it’s four meetings a year. Currently 25 committee meetings (some virtual, some at a day’s notice) plus six events.

I did not sign up for this.

I know what you mean Myrtle I was involved in several volunteer roles in my last location and some of them became quite trying as it was always the same few people (including me) who were expected to organise events.

I have been very restrictive in what I've taken on since I moved here.

🤔Although it's a bit desperate to move house to get away from them!😁

EdithStourton · Yesterday 23:19

I'm now torn between supporting the Hanseatic League or supporting Discworld.

I'm also wondering how many real-life white horses are called Binky. You'd have to pretty confident that your little grey foal was going to grow up to be bright white to call it that at birth. A Connemara, maybe...

It's still very hot and dry here, and it's prime field fire season - there have been a couple in the vicinity already this year. Sometimes they just take out a field full of stubble, but they can also incinerate the combine, the standing grain, hedges... There was a big one on one of my regular walks a few years ago and the damage caused by one spark was incredible.

It's also combining-all-hours season - I was out this evening and drove home at 10, and there were very bright lights a field or two away where some poor sod was still at it.

The young buzzard I watched having its flying lesson the other day isn't the only one in the area. There is a stretch of lane a few miles away where buzzards often loiter. The other day I drove down it and there was one up on a telegraph pole, wonderfully outlined against the sky, its hooked beak in splendid profile. Today there was one there again, and from another spot a smaller, paler one lifted, and started floating upwards.

I never saw a buzzard as child or a teenager, but it's a rare week when I don't see one now. There were two, one very high against the perfect blue sky, when I walked B&B this afternoon. Yesterday evening I was being driven, and could stare to my hearts content when one flew quite low along the hedge beside us, the pale bar decorating its underwing wonderfully visible.

So that's seven or eight since I think Sunday... I know I'm bloody lucky to have them on my doorstep.

EdithStourton · Yesterday 23:23

DauntlessDamson · Yesterday 22:52

I know what you mean Myrtle I was involved in several volunteer roles in my last location and some of them became quite trying as it was always the same few people (including me) who were expected to organise events.

I have been very restrictive in what I've taken on since I moved here.

🤔Although it's a bit desperate to move house to get away from them!😁

I have reached the point where I know that I can't take anything else on, or I'll do none of it justice. At least reasonable people, when you tell them what you're already doing, don't press you to join the village hall solar panels campaign or whatever.

AsWithGlad · Yesterday 23:29

BettyBooper · Yesterday 22:14

Many thanks! I do not regularly frequent this public house, as my parlance is insufficient. Apologies ☹️

But on occasion, a pint of raspberry wine is obligatory!

Thanks again @Boiledbeetle x

All female women welcome here! There are plenty of quiet corners to be comfortable in if you don’t want to talk.

The bargerbils will bring you any drink of your choice when you’ve finished your raspberry wine. Nothing inebriates here, nor contains calories or gluten.

Hedgehogsrightsarehumanrights · Yesterday 23:54

Well i cleared my cache as slow going on MN today (watching Tempest case) and have appeared to travel back in time to an old user name.

donno what’s going on

Chickadeeinme · Today 02:59

I have felt slightly crappy for no obvious reason today, but DH and I went out and got an ice cream from a place that makes them locally, then took it up to the Eastern Prom and sat inthe gorgeous evening light looking out at the sailing boats in the harbour and in Casco Bay. Lovely. I felt a lot better after that.

EmpressaurusKitty · Today 05:06

AsWithGlad · Yesterday 21:42

I did not know that. Thank you, Empressaurus. Or is it Kitty? Perhaps only to your closest equals friends.

Either’s good, or Empress for short 😀