I guess modern fundamentalist gender believers see you as too 'liberal' and your viewpoint challenges their belief system
Which is funny, because they obviously see themselves as the liberal ones, and me as the bigoted one :P
It feels like the goalposts moved very quickly with gender ideology and caught a lot of us (scientists, feminists, concerned parents) off guard. What do you think caused this shift?
I'm really no historian, so take my opinion with a truckload of salt.
I think the shift came as a result of a full-frontal collision.
The T movement has been going on for as long as the LGB one; it was just a lot less visible. But right from the 1960s, there were people campaigning for T rights, and countries passing anti-discrimination laws, and so on. Then more and more people transitioned in the public eye, and the public became accustomed to the existence of trans people, and to granting them small, gradual rights.
The problem, as I see it, is what several others have mentioned on FWR here and there: unlike LGB rights, which respect the integrity of others' rights, T rights ultimately necessarily demand the dismantling of some of the others' rights.
So while LGB activists could go on demanding full equality without encountering practical obstacles, only ideological ones, T activists eventually realised that this approach wasn't going to work for T rights. And they went on the offensive, redefining words, presenting other people's rights (and by people, I mean mostly women) as anti-trans discrimination, and embrigading the young.
Basically, I think the TRAs realised that it was a matter of "Us vs Them", unlike for LGB rights, which were a matter of "Us alongside Them". And from there, it wasn't a quest for T equality anymore, but a quest for T dominance, hence the shift.
Again, that's just what I can see from where I'm standing.