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Howe, for a boy?

91 replies

aletterfromseneca · 03/07/2026 09:58

Yes, I know it is much more common as a surname. It's the only one we like the sound of in both family's languages (English and Chinese). We've fallen in love with it, but have got cold feet and worry that it is blinding us.

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PrettyLittleRose · 04/07/2026 19:25

NamingNoNames · 04/07/2026 18:18

@Italiangreyhound , I think that the child will be half-Chinese and people are a lot more open minded about names.

A name like Hao would not be ridiculed, or it certainly shouldn't be.

Edited

Yes, it would work better if it was spelt like that.

I apologise @aletterfromseneca I didn't notice when I commented earlier that your family is English/Chinese. If the name has the Chinese spelling that could work.

EspanaPorfavor · 04/07/2026 19:36

I assumed it was pronounced like Ho - that would be awful!

NamingNoNames · 04/07/2026 19:43

She was only the grocer's daughter but she showed Sir Geoffrey Howe.

Sometimessmiling · 04/07/2026 19:46

Cockerpoomom · 03/07/2026 10:06

Howie is cuter, probably short for Howard. Howe seems a bit missing something to Me but if you like it who cares? Call it your child,

Agreed

alexdgr8 · 04/07/2026 19:46

aletterfromseneca · 03/07/2026 09:58

Yes, I know it is much more common as a surname. It's the only one we like the sound of in both family's languages (English and Chinese). We've fallen in love with it, but have got cold feet and worry that it is blinding us.

Don't be silly.

Assuming this is not just the usual clickbait of ridiculous names...

Sometimessmiling · 04/07/2026 19:47

aletterfromseneca · 03/07/2026 09:58

Yes, I know it is much more common as a surname. It's the only one we like the sound of in both family's languages (English and Chinese). We've fallen in love with it, but have got cold feet and worry that it is blinding us.

It's awful, cue lots of kids making fun of the name

NamingNoNames · 04/07/2026 19:51

alexdgr8 · 04/07/2026 19:46

Don't be silly.

Assuming this is not just the usual clickbait of ridiculous names...

Why is it silly? It's an anglicised form of a Chinese name.

If she'd posted 'Would Jiasheen work as a name for our DD?' you'd probably say yes.

Italiangreyhound · 05/07/2026 00:27

If it was Hao, which tone would it be and which Chinese spelling, meaning?

NamingNoNames · 05/07/2026 00:31

That would be up to the parents.
OP suggested a not unusual British surname as a name, I suggested an anglicised Chinese name with roughly the same sound.

The Hao I know is called 'How' but the name is [Surname] Hao.

Italiangreyhound · 05/07/2026 00:33

That is who I am asking. Just curious.

ZenNudist · 05/07/2026 00:43

I know a Hao. But female. She's Chinese and doesn't go by her name in the UK. She chose an English name.

Why don't you give mandarin and English names? I know Chinese people who do this.

Wingwalk · 05/07/2026 00:45

aletterfromseneca · 03/07/2026 10:25

Thanks everyone, back to the drawing board I guess.

A bit gutted. It's a very beautiful name in Mandarin

Is it a common name in Mandarin? I've never heard anyone called that (although obviously it's a common word)

liveforsummer · 05/07/2026 01:00

It’s a shame Howie isn’t liked in China as it’s a lovely name and I do actually know a Chinese Howie. Largely though the Chinese dc at the school work have very traditional sometimes older English names - think Kevin, Brian, Gavin, Leona, Lacey

user1476613140 · 05/07/2026 07:49

Howe about it?

user1492757084 · 05/07/2026 10:19

Would you like Howard?

Calliopespa · 05/07/2026 12:30

user1492757084 · 05/07/2026 10:19

Would you like Howard?

You mean "Howard you like Howard?"

I came to say "Howe would you pronounce Howe?"

Two names, same joke, essentially, and I don't think Howards suffer unduly from it.

I do think the name Howard is more commonly accepted OP and would serve him well in the UK, with Howe as a short form. Howard has not been in fashion for a while, but I predict a comeback in the wake of the new baby Stanleys etc coming along.

I actually love the name Howard. The only one of my parent's friends I ever fancied was a 6 foot 2 rugby build Howard of phenomenally good looks, gentlemanly demeanour and an awesome sense of humour who was genuinely hot even going on 60.

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