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What is going on with Brooklyn/Harper Beckham?

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IberianLynx · 14/06/2026 13:20

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/harper-beckhams-devastating-gesture-after-37292907.amp

AIBU to feel sorry for Harper? If BB has an issue with his parents it shouldn’t mean that he also stops talking to his siblings. It’s equally as sad if the parents did choreographed the letter/visit.

Brooklyn Beckham accuses parents of using Harper for 'choreographed' house visit

Harper Beckham was spotted making a failed attempt to reunite with her brother Brooklyn, with a spokesperson dismissing the visit as another stunt from 'brand Beckham'

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/harper-beckhams-devastating-gesture-after-37292907.amp

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Decacaffeinatednow · 19/06/2026 20:56

She was never going to have a chance at being anything other than a trough for her parents’ grifting snouts.

Letsgetreadytorhumble · 19/06/2026 20:56

Should be with pals making up dance routines like a normal teen.

BlondeFool · 19/06/2026 20:58

GingerBeverage · 19/06/2026 20:52

I’m cynical enough to know that she is only 4 years away from her first cosmetic surgery procedures.

If you look at photos from even a year ago, I think she’s had a bit of lip filler. Poor kid.

Gowlett · 19/06/2026 21:33

Letsgetreadytorhumble · 19/06/2026 20:56

Should be with pals making up dance routines like a normal teen.

So many of the nepo kids are turning professional so young now. North West is going on tour. Blue Ivy is on stage with her mum. Harper will have her skincare range soon, and she’ll be everywhere. But, it’s all they’ve ever known as well. Brooklyn is a lesson. Not to mention all of the showbiz kids who’ve succumbed to drugs, booze, MH issues… Some are even on Only Fans.

Tableforjoan · 19/06/2026 21:39

GellerYeller · 19/06/2026 20:24

I would have found it really interesting if any of their kids had gone headlong into a classic alt/goth emo teen phase. Imagine the red carpet with the family all spruced up and one angsty, pasty, embarrassed kid on the end in all the carefully curated photos.
Having said that it might have been another opportunity to expand VB’s eyeliner range!

Well this is it isn’t it say what you want about Kim but North? Has been allowed to become her own person even if some of those things are also very questionable.

BeardySchnauzer · 19/06/2026 21:47

Yes that’s true. Also Nicole Ritchie’s daughter. Looks like she’s still going to have a nepo baby career but she has her own style and has changed her name (to Kate from Sparrow)

Blue Ivy is a bit scary - I’m not sure what to make of how they treat her/let her treat them. Will be interesting to see what happens with the younger kids

Letsgetreadytorhumble · 19/06/2026 21:47

Gowlett · 19/06/2026 21:33

So many of the nepo kids are turning professional so young now. North West is going on tour. Blue Ivy is on stage with her mum. Harper will have her skincare range soon, and she’ll be everywhere. But, it’s all they’ve ever known as well. Brooklyn is a lesson. Not to mention all of the showbiz kids who’ve succumbed to drugs, booze, MH issues… Some are even on Only Fans.

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I have seen Blue Ivy dance to be fair and she has got a talent. I don't know what North West does? Her name is utterly ridiculous and I vaguely know who her parents are so not shocking.

BeardySchnauzer · 19/06/2026 21:48

Also - who is Harper selling this to? Teenage girls aren’t buying VB cosmetics and the target market aren’t thinking ‘ooh, a 14 year old has recommended it, must buy it now!’

Letsgetreadytorhumble · 19/06/2026 21:53

I just googled North West. She is the most grown up 13 year old child I have ever seen. Holy hell.

FrankieMcGrath · 19/06/2026 21:56

Letsgetreadytorhumble · 19/06/2026 21:47

I have seen Blue Ivy dance to be fair and she has got a talent. I don't know what North West does? Her name is utterly ridiculous and I vaguely know who her parents are so not shocking.

Pink’s daughter is another but she does seem very talented to be fair.

likelysuspect · 19/06/2026 21:56

BlondeFool · 19/06/2026 20:58

If you look at photos from even a year ago, I think she’s had a bit of lip filler. Poor kid.

Where are the pictures of this?

Letsgetreadytorhumble · 19/06/2026 21:58

Harper could have a talent underlying we don't know because all we see is her parading around in vb fashion and makeup. Shes not allowed just be herself.

Also agree with above, who is her target audience?

UserNineNine · 19/06/2026 22:03

BeardySchnauzer · 19/06/2026 21:47

Yes that’s true. Also Nicole Ritchie’s daughter. Looks like she’s still going to have a nepo baby career but she has her own style and has changed her name (to Kate from Sparrow)

Blue Ivy is a bit scary - I’m not sure what to make of how they treat her/let her treat them. Will be interesting to see what happens with the younger kids

Sparrow is a boy. It’s Harlow that’s her daughter. Her legal middle name is Kate (Harlow Winter Kate) but she was called Kate always by everyone.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 19/06/2026 22:03

BeardySchnauzer · 19/06/2026 21:48

Also - who is Harper selling this to? Teenage girls aren’t buying VB cosmetics and the target market aren’t thinking ‘ooh, a 14 year old has recommended it, must buy it now!’

Same with Cruz. I didn't even know the name of his band so just googled it and they're called Cruz Beckham and The Breakers. Obviously they couldn't just call themselves The Breakers because people might not know there's a Beckham kid involved 😂.

But who is willingly paying out money to go and watch him perform?!

BeardySchnauzer · 19/06/2026 22:05

UserNineNine · 19/06/2026 22:03

Sparrow is a boy. It’s Harlow that’s her daughter. Her legal middle name is Kate (Harlow Winter Kate) but she was called Kate always by everyone.

🤣 poor boy. I hope he has a good middle name

Foofedifiknow · 19/06/2026 22:08

Katflapkit · 14/06/2026 14:55

She was there because her Father had a Star outside the Chinese Theater. She was dressed up for that ceremony.

That Hollywood Walk of Fame star will have been bought and paid for by Beckham - it’s an honour up for sale and in keeping with their priorities and image management.

Gowlett · 20/06/2026 06:11

BeardySchnauzer · 19/06/2026 21:48

Also - who is Harper selling this to? Teenage girls aren’t buying VB cosmetics and the target market aren’t thinking ‘ooh, a 14 year old has recommended it, must buy it now!’

The tween / teen skincare market is absolutely massive. Gone are the days of Body Shop soaps! There’s a tribe known as Sephora Kids & the mums are spending serious money on (unsuitable) beauty products. Harper’s range will be nothing to do with VB (but the links to manufacturers, marketing etc are there). However, Harper does do social media using her mum’s products, so there will be Beckham tie-in, though her brand has it’s own name (but might be By Harper Beckham)

Huge target audience. I was reading about a Hollywood tween (now teen) who launched her own skincare range (very wealthy showbiz parents) as she, um, wanted one! She’s a pal of Blue Ivy (which they mentioned of course!). Harper just needs some celeb besties now (her real friends can’t be shown, remember the Stella McCartney row?). In fact, I don’t know why the lads don’t have a bigger circle than their girlfriends. Dave is a big mover on the London social scene, VB not so much… But she does have a few key friendships (Tom Cruise, Eva Longoria, Tans Ramsay)

NeelyOHara · 20/06/2026 06:25

Letsgetreadytorhumble · 19/06/2026 21:47

I have seen Blue Ivy dance to be fair and she has got a talent. I don't know what North West does? Her name is utterly ridiculous and I vaguely know who her parents are so not shocking.

Blue Ivy is a mediocre dancer at best, it was mortifying that Beyoncé kept dragging her out on stage. And both of them have ridiculous names.

BeardySchnauzer · 20/06/2026 07:17

Gowlett · 20/06/2026 06:11

The tween / teen skincare market is absolutely massive. Gone are the days of Body Shop soaps! There’s a tribe known as Sephora Kids & the mums are spending serious money on (unsuitable) beauty products. Harper’s range will be nothing to do with VB (but the links to manufacturers, marketing etc are there). However, Harper does do social media using her mum’s products, so there will be Beckham tie-in, though her brand has it’s own name (but might be By Harper Beckham)

Huge target audience. I was reading about a Hollywood tween (now teen) who launched her own skincare range (very wealthy showbiz parents) as she, um, wanted one! She’s a pal of Blue Ivy (which they mentioned of course!). Harper just needs some celeb besties now (her real friends can’t be shown, remember the Stella McCartney row?). In fact, I don’t know why the lads don’t have a bigger circle than their girlfriends. Dave is a big mover on the London social scene, VB not so much… But she does have a few key friendships (Tom Cruise, Eva Longoria, Tans Ramsay)

Edited

I have a teen daughter so I am very aware sadly!

the products she is being used to sell in the article I linked are all from VB - my dd wouldn’t touch that - first because of the expense (though she does save up for some things I find eyebrow raising) but secondly because the Beckham brand is ‘old’ and it doesn’t appeal to that age group

so I find it a weird way to get her started in the make up biz. Would have made more sense for VB to do a teen collab with her.

in fact I wonder if this constant pushing of them as a family brand makes them unrelatable to their own age group

Gowlett · 20/06/2026 07:24

BeardySchnauzer · 20/06/2026 07:17

I have a teen daughter so I am very aware sadly!

the products she is being used to sell in the article I linked are all from VB - my dd wouldn’t touch that - first because of the expense (though she does save up for some things I find eyebrow raising) but secondly because the Beckham brand is ‘old’ and it doesn’t appeal to that age group

so I find it a weird way to get her started in the make up biz. Would have made more sense for VB to do a teen collab with her.

in fact I wonder if this constant pushing of them as a family brand makes them unrelatable to their own age group

That’s a good point, about the family brand. Lots of the social media around Cruz’s music involved his granny being at the gig, etc… I’m sure his band mates were pissed off (even if they are session musicians getting a payday!) It’s always “we love you so much, kisses”

Fkj23jdfj · 20/06/2026 07:25

Gowlett · 20/06/2026 06:11

The tween / teen skincare market is absolutely massive. Gone are the days of Body Shop soaps! There’s a tribe known as Sephora Kids & the mums are spending serious money on (unsuitable) beauty products. Harper’s range will be nothing to do with VB (but the links to manufacturers, marketing etc are there). However, Harper does do social media using her mum’s products, so there will be Beckham tie-in, though her brand has it’s own name (but might be By Harper Beckham)

Huge target audience. I was reading about a Hollywood tween (now teen) who launched her own skincare range (very wealthy showbiz parents) as she, um, wanted one! She’s a pal of Blue Ivy (which they mentioned of course!). Harper just needs some celeb besties now (her real friends can’t be shown, remember the Stella McCartney row?). In fact, I don’t know why the lads don’t have a bigger circle than their girlfriends. Dave is a big mover on the London social scene, VB not so much… But she does have a few key friendships (Tom Cruise, Eva Longoria, Tans Ramsay)

Edited

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cx212x41evwo

www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-67993618

The damage of Cosmeticorexia is now becoming well known and with the SM bans for children coming into place thankfully this vile market is going to be seriously impacted. I’d suggest Harper’s “business” is dead before it has even started. Not a nice look for the Beckham brand- fleecing and damaging young children.

An illustration of a girl applying a red sheet face mask

Cosmeticorexia: How girls are falling down a skincare rabbit hole

Fuelled by social media, the market for children's skincare is booming. Experts fear for the long-term impact on girls

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cx212x41evwo

BeardySchnauzer · 20/06/2026 07:49

Harper is 14 - my dd is a little older and started with make up a year or so ago but has commented on young girls raiding Sephora and doesn’t shop there anymore. The targeting of such young girls is deeply disturbing and I think 13/14 is the time it should naturally start (I remember in the 80s my sister and her friends with the ‘bold’ looks🤣) but the number of products they try and push on the kids these days is crazy

I agree that they’ve missed the boat here - they are trying to convince people they don’t exploit their children by exploiting other people’s children 🤔

Delladuck · 20/06/2026 09:03

I was reading this thread last night when the education part came up

I'm dyslexic and have a narcissist mother/enabling father (she's ruined every relationship I've ever had with men,bar dp by meddling and shitstirring)

My mother thought education was a waste of time and somewhere to dump us through the day

She wouldn't have dreamed of backing up the teachers if we misbehaved (well,she'd have come down on me like a ton of bricks as the scapegoat but her precious golden child boys could do no wrong)

My father valued education and tried to teach us himself but was batted down from all angles by her

I left school with no gcses and just thought I was thick

Grew up,had dc and decided I wanted to learn a trade and went back to collage

She went mental (I was in my 30's by this point) and suddenly found i wasn't thick-i started passing exams so she started telling lies like I only passed because I was handing bjs out to the tutors and cheating

I passed the course,which set her off on another narc rant

I was nc by this point so she cut me off from everyone I loved and turned them against me

She uses guilt,money,blackmail and fear of being the next scapegoat to control the rest of them-they are so caught up in the web shes span,they can't break free and she unleashes the flying monkeys on a regular basis (only a few weeks ago,my brother was full of 'i miss you!' we both know he doesn't,he just wants to report back to headquarters)

The other sons girlfriends will be 'safe' unless they move a toenail out of line and then they'll be out-they look like V which sounds weird but all 3 of my brothers have married women who look/behave like my mother

This seems to be what's happening here-thankfully brooklyn has untangled himself but it's a painful experience

You lose everyone dear to you and if you dare to make bonds with anyone else,they ruin that too until you meet someone who doesn't put up with their crap (in his case it's nicola and mine is dp and his family)

I feel for harper-she will be missing her brother dearly,cannot understand what is happening within her own family,uneducated and cannot break free

I hope she manages it one day-the boys are in too deep and will toe the line

FairKoala · 24/06/2026 10:38

Delladuck · 20/06/2026 09:03

I was reading this thread last night when the education part came up

I'm dyslexic and have a narcissist mother/enabling father (she's ruined every relationship I've ever had with men,bar dp by meddling and shitstirring)

My mother thought education was a waste of time and somewhere to dump us through the day

She wouldn't have dreamed of backing up the teachers if we misbehaved (well,she'd have come down on me like a ton of bricks as the scapegoat but her precious golden child boys could do no wrong)

My father valued education and tried to teach us himself but was batted down from all angles by her

I left school with no gcses and just thought I was thick

Grew up,had dc and decided I wanted to learn a trade and went back to collage

She went mental (I was in my 30's by this point) and suddenly found i wasn't thick-i started passing exams so she started telling lies like I only passed because I was handing bjs out to the tutors and cheating

I passed the course,which set her off on another narc rant

I was nc by this point so she cut me off from everyone I loved and turned them against me

She uses guilt,money,blackmail and fear of being the next scapegoat to control the rest of them-they are so caught up in the web shes span,they can't break free and she unleashes the flying monkeys on a regular basis (only a few weeks ago,my brother was full of 'i miss you!' we both know he doesn't,he just wants to report back to headquarters)

The other sons girlfriends will be 'safe' unless they move a toenail out of line and then they'll be out-they look like V which sounds weird but all 3 of my brothers have married women who look/behave like my mother

This seems to be what's happening here-thankfully brooklyn has untangled himself but it's a painful experience

You lose everyone dear to you and if you dare to make bonds with anyone else,they ruin that too until you meet someone who doesn't put up with their crap (in his case it's nicola and mine is dp and his family)

I feel for harper-she will be missing her brother dearly,cannot understand what is happening within her own family,uneducated and cannot break free

I hope she manages it one day-the boys are in too deep and will toe the line

Or you could look at NP dating history and see a pattern.

BB isn’t the first relationship where the bfs parents have been cut off

Decacaffeinatednow · 24/06/2026 10:45

@FairKoala
Why are you laying the blame at Nicola Peltz's door? Do you think D & V are wronged? Have you an opinion on what they are doing to their other children?

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